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28 F Erlensee, Germany

My Details

Last Online
Aug 10
Asian, White
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from two-year college
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), German (Fluently), Italian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
[ Kindly, married or otherwise occupied, gently,
[ don´t embarrass yourself, don´t waste each other´s time
[ life is short. If you are not able to prove yourself, FUCK OFF.

Hello Mr. Right,

Remember me? I am that girl you saw in that cafe on your lunch break, laughing with a friend, and watching you surreptitiously. I bet you didn't notice me in the crowd, with my eyes lowered and blushing profusely as you pass me by. No, never would i dare to look at you for even one minute, Mr., because you and all the world would know that i am completely at your mercy. And really, who needs another needy girl? You'd just turn me into one hot mess, and i'd not even have a chance to blink. But i want you. I want you to notice me because if you don't, you will never know what you missed. You will just sail from one island to another, each more exotic, each more toxic than the one before, forever oblivious to the fact that what you longed for lied hidden beneath the surface of all the seas you crossed. Behind all the sea monsters you fought so bravely. Your ship will wreck, and your spirit will break, if you do not find me. If you do not choose wisely, you'll end up like the rest, skeletons sleeping on the seabed, shadows of lesser men. But you won't find me among them, quit searching in the sand. I come in waves, some tender, some violent. They will drench you to the bone, and carry you along to a safe haven where i will dare to say hello. You will be soaked and i will strip you naked, because only then can i see eye to eye with you. I am afraid it will still be me who is left blushing, but if you take me in your arms, and promise to not let go, i will pledge to save you from drowning, and keep the sharks at bay. I might even serve them for supper if you bring the champagne.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
listening to friends, cheering them up if they are sad, and cheering them on if they need a boost. I am good at empathizing with someone, and i usually make other's feel comfortable in my presence. I am very good at sensing other's feelings, intentions and desires.

I love being artsy, and creating beauty and warmth around me. I enjoy Origami, creating paper wall art, cards, stamps, quilling, and i aspire to become a hobby seamstress because i'd love to be able to create my individual style. I am amazing at working out sometimes, jumping on a trampoline, up and down, pretending i am in the army. ;) Afterwards i am usually great at lying on a couch and reading books, fiction and non-fiction, preferably dealing with the human condition, psychology, and a little philosophy and history, too.

I am fantastic at doing chores, especially ones that give me the opportunity to listen to audio books. Actually i am quite fabulous at anything that i can do with headphones on.

I can be a great inquisitor if someone piques my attention. I am good at writing long letters without making my recipient moan. I am particularly good at secretly watching people while sitting in a cozy little cafe, pretending i am just enjoying a cup of coffee. I am quite playful, and once i warm up to someone, i am great at engaging my company in anything, from shallow gossip to deep conversation. Oh and i am amazing at ignoring my cell phone, which means i am actually capable of focusing my attention exclusively on my partner.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My shyness
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Of human bondage, Slaughterhouse five, Brave new world, Out of Character, The culture code, the great gatsby.

Code 46, The Nines by John August, The Cloud Atlas, You and me and everyone we know, The English patient, the girlfriend experience, The invention of lying, Lawrence of Arabia, Much ado about nothing

Anything that's upbeat and makes me want to rock/ workout. I also love classical music to relax to and dream.

I love spicy food. Malaysian dishes, Chinese, Thai and Mexican. Oh and i also adore the Italian cuisine.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A close friend to dissect the obscenities of life with.
Something to laugh about and something to love.
Sharing intimacy, warmth and compassion.
My secret music library.
And something sweet.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What might be, what could have been and what may never be. And then revising my opinion as life throws it all in my face with an evil laugh hahahaha

Guess we're all just rats in an elaborate labyrinth of someone else's making.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
spending time with a person i like, watching movies, dining out, or just talking the night away. I am not into parties or clubbing. I prefer quality to quantity in my choice of company.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I love intimacy, and i am a Negotiator-Builder type.
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 27–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
- you don't mind communicating in English with me.
- you are a man of integrity.
- you treat people with respect and consideration.
- you project a calm and reassuring presence.
- others consider you a gentleman.
- you have a positive attitude.
- you like being in charge.
- you take your commitments seriously.
- you find solutions, not who's to blame.