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54 South Pasadena, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 50–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 27
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Life is good and i intend for it to keep improving. I'd like to meet someone who is confident and can live well without a woman to define him.....but still yearns for great love. I would like him to be someone who truly enjoys life or at least intends to for the most part. I am very clear that I am responsible for everything that happens in my life and it would be good to share that with someone. I know most anything you want in life can come easily if you're in the right frame of mind, so sharing time with people who believe and experience that anything is possible is essential to me.

To me, true connection is the key to great romance. I don't believe this can be forced in any way. Meeting new people and enjoying activities together, allowing attraction, not always being on my best behavior, experiencing you as you are, laughing and kissing when that's right.......that's all a context for connection to happen...maybe...we'll see and have some good times seeing.
What I’m doing with my life
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Living the fine line between responsibility and new horizons. Fully engaged in my career that I love and being the best parent to my one child who lives at home I can be. Becoming totally 21st century savvy.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
enjoying: the mysteries of life that have yet to reveal themselves, synchronicity, laughter, being a lover of life, kisses that will make you never forget me, carefully constructing my playlist, trusting my intuition, cooking authentic Coq au Vin and my mother's chicken soup, my work that I'm passionate about, believing that passionate romance is right around the corner, passion in general. Appreciating people for exactly who they are and not trying to change them.
The first things people usually notice about me
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my dark soulful smiling eyes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The Stories of John Cheever, East of Eden (the book), Prodigal Summer by Barbara Kingsolver, Ask and It is Given, The Alchemist, Ender's Game....very fun! Still love Hesse and Castaneda. Gladwell. The greats of psychology...Jung, Reich, White, Freud, Maslow….Thich Nhat Hanh…. Rumi....perfection. Meher Baba. Blue Zones, American Beauty....a masterpiece of film. French New Wave. recently loved Silver Linings Playbook and can't wait to see his new one. Binge-watched Fringe and loved it. Lately, I have been obsessed with anything scifi (preparation for times to come?) I have so many favorites films.. Music from a-z, healthy happy organic food in its pure form..lots of raw, including milk. Bulletproof newest discovery.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my children
my work
my friends
life's reflection back to me
my did I live without it?
my new
my great love who is on his way
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Maybe not so much thinking but contemplating and reaching for love in its many different forms.......and how to have more fun!. And how to learn the most from my mistakes....oh, and how to think less...

Also, too much time thinking about if I am going to like the iPhone 6+ or if its going to be too big. The mind is kind of an awful place to hang out.

EDIT: I should work for Apple....LOVE the 6+.....I hope its a lasting love, but alas, I am fickle with gadgets...I always want the newest one.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
often working or enjoying Movie Night with friends or family....that means bring out the oldies but else does anyone appreciate My Fair Lady, The Sound of Music or West Side Story,???? Most of the time the others run away and I end up watching alone...."There's a place for us, somewhere a place for us. Hold my hand and I'll take you there....". ...And connection always and at every opportunity....
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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hummmm..........this has me stumped. I guess that I am a goofball and always trying to seem a bit more sophisticated than I am.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
when we meet you can restrain from mentally going through a checklist in your head. I can tell if you are doing that so don't try to hide!!!