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maatsista

39 Oakland, CA Woman

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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 31–46
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
May 11
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Black
Height
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body type
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Medicine
Income
Status
Single
Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a dreamer, a storyteller, a laughter magnet, a curious gal, a loyal soul, and a truth-seeker. I love wine, a wee bit of whiskey, good food, and dancing. I cherish my meditation and yoga practices and being in the company of family (biological and chosen).

I am seeking a man who is intellectually stimulating, is kind, wants to travel the world, and life life to its fullest with a life partner, and who thinks that laughter is a key ingredient to happiness. My ideal is someone with sound character, who embraces empathy, listening, direct communication, honesty, loyalty and growth.

I want companionship for the long-term, not a short fling. If this sounds like your cup of tea, let me know!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Not taking it too seriously, living by the golden rule, working in public health, and having a good time.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Getting to know you, getting to know all about you..., connecting with people, and making sure that people feel included, loved and appreciated.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile. I love to laugh and connect with people.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I always go back to The Bluest Eye by Toni Morrison; it's a great book. Amelie is a gorgeous movie full of color and quriky laughter. I adore soul music: it could be fast, it could be slow. Tasty, well-seasoned, fresh food is a must. This American Life, The Moth, StoryCorps, and other podcasts like them make me really happy!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love
Laughter
Compassion
Shelter
Sleep
Water
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
If grellow is green-yellow or grey-yellow, finding beauty in the mundane, the keys to happiness, how to pay it forward, and how to stay fully present in this moment.

And whether green tea is really meeting my needs. I miss coffee!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Wine tasting, spending quality time with friends, thinking about going dancing, or maxing and relaxing on the couch.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Ask me anything, but in person.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You like to laugh, want to get out of the online world and meet in person, and are genuine.