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mabupi

29 / F / Straight / Single

Cockeysville, Maryland

Her Details

Last Online
Today – 7:38pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m).
Body Type
Full figured
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Leo but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Other
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I'm an almost-30 girl who embraces life and all the craziness it has to offer. The people in my life are my greatest source of joy. I adore my "we put the fun in dysfunctional" family, and have great relationships with my parents and sisters. I'm a Pacific Northwest native, who spent a little time in the great state of Texas, and am now finding out what the East Coast has to offer. I'm constantly on the lookout for anything that will become a great memory and story to tell later.
What I’m doing with my life
Right now I'm having an adventure! Just moved to the East Coast after living on the West Coast most my life.
I’m really good at
Getting the giggles in inappropriate settings i.e. Easter Sermons and funerals. Finding the humor in pretty much any situation, even ones that almost no one else would (the "this will be funny in 5 years" rule doesn't apply to me, more like in 5 minutes) Recovering quickly after falling down in public places, like the subway stairs in NYC. I might be the most curious person you've ever met. I'm good at giving advice.
The first things people usually notice about me
My hair. I'm quick to smile and laugh. I can be sweet as pie or as sarcastic as they come, depending on the setting and the audience.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: fiction across many genres. Chick Lit, John Grisham, Ender's Game and the Shadow series, Jodi Picoult, etc. etc.

Movies: The Sandlot, Big Fish, Amelie, Bollywood, The Last Samurai, Anne of Green Gables, chick flicks from the Meg Ryan/Sandra Bullock era, comedies, dramas. Just not super into raunchy comedy, horror or The Notebook. I hate that movie.

Shows: Arrested Development, 24 (both of which are getting mini comebacks, thank heavens!), Breaking Bad, New Girl, The Mindy Project, The Office seasons 1-4, Parks and Rec, Friday Night Lights, Roswell (guilty pleasure), Pushing Daisies

Music: seriously, a potpourri! I could never list everything I love to listen to. Just a teeny tiny sampling of my favorites include Guster, Joshua Radin, Ben Folds (and his Five), Cake, Fall Out Boy, Snow Patrol, old school John Mayer, Matisyahu, Meiko, Three Days Grace, Breaking Benjamin, Seether, Metallica, lots of Top 40 stuff, classic rock, radio-friendly rap, great covers, old school country...from Dolly to Tim, oldies, 80's and 90's. The only music genres I avoid in general are Slow Jamz type R&B and really heavy screaming metal

Food: I like it all. Except Sushi but I still keep trying to like it.

Radio: Radiolab and This American Life
The six things I could never do without
Road trips
Conditioner...seriously it's hard to tame this mane!
Great conversations
Stories and memories
The beach
Campfires
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My friends and family. I also tend to get excited about quirky things, like: stories of dogs using public transit in Russia, doctors curing brain diseases with super glue, and the national spelling bee. I'm fascinated by interpersonal relationships, people's stories and motivations. In case you're familiar and care, I'm a words of affirmation/physical touch girl, and I'm a Yellow with secondary Blue
On a typical Friday night I am
hot tub, Guitar Hero, music concerts, playing on a playground, hunting turtles in the suburbs, camping, stargazing, driving aimlessly with the windows down and music blaring, laying in a field and counting the stars, playing board games, singing karaoke, watching a movie, watching Netflix, the symphony, eating out, or (my favorite) goofing around with my friends.

Basically, if the company is good, I'm up for pretty much anything that isn't illegal or substance-dependent (spoiler alert, I'm not a big drinker. Sorry, Charlie).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
When I was young I used to climb the cherry tree in my backyard and use my secret code book (aka the phone book) to spy on my teenage neighbor and his friends. They paid me back by mooning me.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 25–34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You are smart, fun and interesting. You're looking for more than a casual hook up. You don't mind an opinionated and often sassy (but still tender-hearted and generous) woman. You love conversations that last into the night about life, love, pasts, futures and people/relationships in general.