I am comfortable with who I am, but would like to spend time with someone who shares my likes (cycling, camping, beach, movies, music, theater, hiking, going out, staying in, travel) and dislikes (rudeness, disrespect, drivers who don't use their turn indicator, people who litter or smoke in public and "winks" - send me a message please). I hope to find someone to share my heart, body, soul and spirit! Someone who makes me want to come home and talk about the day. Someone to share my thoughts, desires and fantasies. Someone to explore places we've never been or want to go again. My ideal match would be a woman who is also comfortable with herself and wants to share all of these things with me.
I am not a middle aged man looking for someone half his age. I am not looking for an arm trophy. I am not looking for a "quickie" or a way into your bed. I am not looking for an uncommitted relationship. I am not dishonest or a player.
Also, I am not looking for a mother for my son; he has one already. My ex and I share custody. When he is with me, he is my focus. When he is with her, I can focus more on you and I. Is that acceptable? Of course, that doesn't mean I'd ignore you when he is around! Speaking of my ex, it should be said that we are still friends and speak often. We want to remain amicable but will not reconcile.