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madamskies

42 F Cape Town, South Africa

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:50am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.67m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Religion
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sign
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Afrikaans (Fluently), German (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I love reading, clever people, wine, bluegrass, the Tsitsikamma, the Cederberg, Patagonia, travelling by public transport in Africa. Architecture, lamb chops, pinadas, academics, and penguins. Landrovers, espadrilles, flawed
people.

I don't like: fast drivers, golf courses, golf shirts, quad bikes, facebrick, crocs shoes and guns or Caprice Bar.

I change my mind about stuff. But not about the stuff I like.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a researcher.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Good at making an ass out of myself
Good at making the best lasagne
Good at drinking wine
Good at coming up with life-changing ideas and realizing they are crap the next morning
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Blue eyes
My wit
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I am Pilgrim
The hundred year old man who climbed out of the window
Great Expectations
Tintin
To kill a mocking bird
The history of love
The secret history
And anything by Jo Nesbo, John Irving, Gabriel Garcia Marquez, John Steinbeck, Margaret Atwood, Ruth Rendell.

Moonrise Kingdom
Django Unchained
The Usual suspects
A passage to India
Lawrence of Arabia
Giant

Music? What the boys used to play at Track & Field parties at Frieda's Cafe. Stuff my older sister listened to when she was young. Like Fleetwood Mac & Neil Diamond. And then electronica, electro-swing, Balkan-hop, flip jazz, placid house, fur metal, country, blues, and anything danceable.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
friends
laughter
sea
books
family
cheese
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
a lot of crap and some good stuff too
I never think about religion or other airy fair stuff
Oh and how I can lose weight and still drink lots of wine
and eat cheese.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
with friends or at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
yeah, like I'm going to write that here.
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 35–47
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You would occasionally let me turn over my own chop on the braai... and if you will be compassionate about my phobias.

PS. to the 20-year old boys... you are very sweet and I am rather flattered but I'll probably rather have dinner with hot dad! :)