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56 F Sacramento, CA

My Details

Last Online
Apr 5
5′ 2″ (1.58m)
Body Type
A little extra
Not at all
Other, but not too serious about it
Scorpio, and it matters a lot
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
Has dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
I'm not sure here ...what's expected ... seems like a lot of people love the same things ...nature, exploring, wanting to meet that special someone. I'd actually like to have a good friend at first, I'd like to have a lot of common interests with someone. And it would also be nice to bring something new into a friendship / relationship.
I'm starting over ...what I mean is ..... I used to think working on the inside of me would change me for the better or help me be happy, but I am happy ... now I just want to be who I am and start enjoying the things I love in life .
I'm finally starting to see the whole picture, and I like it. I wish I saw it earlier ...but I see it now, and that's what counts.
Eventually, if I fall in love, I don't just want love ..I want the kind of "I'VE GOT YOUR BACK " Love..... because., when no one else is there, I'll be there for you, that's a fact.

I Love what everyone seems to love .... the OCEAN! The Redwoods, I enjoy being out in nature ...but I can just as easily spend time indoors, reading, watching a movie, fire going, talking, planning, enjoying quiet time alone or with my other half. Weekend trips or just hanging out ....
This is a small place to write about oneself, theres so much more to a person than what can be written. If you think you'd like to know more, I welcome all messages.
What I’m doing with my life
I love spending time with my grandbabies, I have 2, both boys. I see a lot of my parents, who, against my wishes aren't getting any younger! Update on that father passed on Jan 1st. So I spend weekends with my Mom who is an awesome person and we're
rediscovering the close friendship we used to have.
I do work ...for the state at a
courthouse.I like it a lot.
I spend time with my dogs,and cats.
I recently bought my own place and I'm excited about "making it my own " decorating etc ..the yard is small but I want to make it bird and butterfly friendly ..lots of flowers and miniature trees.
I love going. To the movies or renting from "redbox ". I haven't taken a weekend trip in a long time but I love to do that.
I enjoy eating in or out ...doesn't matter.
Being outdoors in nicer weather or working mon a fun project kind of sums it up for right now
I’m really good at
I like to write .....people that I allow to read what I like enjoy what I write and tell me I should persue it. I do have a way with the written word and look forward to writing more once I'm settled in my new place.
I'm good with animals, I have no problems with training them, the ones I own are well behaved. I've been grooming, training, breeding and enjoying animals from a young age and have owned many different kinds ...I even owned a monkey once!
I have no problems carrying on a conversation with someone .....
I have a fabulous relationship with my younger grandson that is so beautiful to me ...seeing the world through his eyes is amazing and feels like a completely different way to look at and assess things.
The first things people usually notice about me
Well ... a lot of people tell me I have a beautiful smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like to read ...John Grisham ... some of Stephen King, random books about people's lives, .... recently read Beautiful Boy " by David Sheff and am now reading his sons book. "Tweak " by Nic Sheff ...really poignant reading can see what the books are about at.
I LOVE John Meyer, Maroon 5, Rhianna, Chris Rene, Adele, Toby Keith, Death Cab for Cuties, George Winston, I still love Zeppelin, Pink Floyd, Seager, Journey, Jimmy Buffet etc.,, I just don't listen to them as much.
"Silver Linings Playbook " and the "Hangover " trilogy won me over. I also love, Driving Miss Daisy, On Golden Pond, Donnie Darko, ALL Jason Statham movies Big, ... etcetera. I love
Animal Planet ...Nat. Geo. stations ...And its a shame "Curb you're Enthusiasm isn't on anymore, I really loved Lie To Me, but I can still watch it as I have all 3 seasons. You'd be surprised at whats good on KVIE ....
Food is good ... . Chinese, Mexican, BBQ is the BEST! Seems like I enjoy chicken more than I like red meat lately, I really don't cook a lot, not because I can't ....I'm just doing other things and find myself eating a lot of apples with p nut butter, bananas, uncooked sweet peas in the pod with dip, greek honey yogurt with granola mixed in and popcorn.
The six things I could never do without
I LOVE animals of every kind
I love spending time with my family
I Love being outdoorsi
I enjoy most of what life has to offer ...and tolerate the rest
Indoor plumbing,
And I could never live without ....'
The right to be me!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I think a lot about my life, where I've come from, where I'm going and where I'll end up, Life is such a journey that can change so quickly .... whether you want it to or not. I'm not saying to be irresponsible ... just saying ... Do .... each day what you feel like doing.
On a typical Friday night I am
Most friday nights now I'm with my grandson, seeing life through his eyes is like a renewal on how, simple things, can be incredible.
If not with him, I'm with friends looking for trouble (not) out and about or at home watching movies..reading and just generally gearing up for the weekend
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I've been shot, ran over and thrown overboard ... picked up all the pieces,
but I'm still standing ....
Better than I've ever stood
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 48–60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
If you're not an adrenaline junkie ..
If you think we may have something in common,
And..... you'd like to find out!