Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
In many ways I'm deeply content with my life. My work engages me
intellectually and emotionally and allows me to pay the bills. I
love where I live and most days can walk to work except when I hop
on the train to the other side of the East River and take in the
electric flow of Manhattan. Recently have been biking into
Manhattan. I love the way that city biking makes me feel free and
at the same time demands that I be hyper-alert to everything that's
going on around me.
I have a daughter in middle school who enriches my world
immeasurably. She is quite something and I feel incredibly lucky to
have her in my life. We share many adventures and she has a wisdom
that goes far beyond her years.
I've always been curious about.... about lots of things in the
world and so my sense of the world is expansive. I notice; I
listen; I taste; I feel; I try when I can to take my time in doing
those things, but, you know, there's never enough time in NYC. I
also yearn for someone to share the many wonderful, and the
sometimes not so wonderful, parts of life. I want to meet a man
with whom I can explore and discover more of what's out there and
to reveal what's in here.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm raising my daughter on my own. Parenting is its own challenging
adventure and also very fulfilling as those of you with kids
I'm a psychologist--perhaps you guessed that by now--in private
practice. My work sustains me in multiple ways.
I'm a devoted farmers' market shopper of many years. The abundance
during this summer season knocks me out: the colors, textures,
I'm a political activist: DDDB until recently, sniff, growl... I
try to stay involved with the anti-fraking movement, but these days
mostly by reading up, signing petitions and bringing it into
conversation when appropriate.
Music, of many kinds, but especially jazz has been a very important
part of my life for a long time. I'd definitely like to get out
more to some live shows, but in the meantime, I content myself with
the superb DJs over at WKCR and WFMU.
What else? I have traveled a great deal and lived abroad for a
couple of years--the experiences that I had while living overseas
provided a new and enduring sense of direction that played a big
role in my career choice. And significantly, I love being places of
wild-ness. My daughter and I often hike and camp during our summer
vacations along with other kinds of travel.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Naming that tune! I have a really good ear.
Baking (the above mentioned farmers' markets supply excellent
ingredients for pies) and making amazing latkes.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I feel a little funny about this one. I don't know what other
people notice about me because I'm not int he habit of asking them
and it isn't the kind of thing that people offer spontaneously. I
guess all internet sites have at least one item that stumps
12/12 update: I took the direct route and asked a few people to
help me with this. One dear friend said this: "you might not be the
one telling the jokes at a party but when you laugh, you laugh with
your whole body." Another said: " your warm smile."
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Yikes, here's another... This question seems fluid and somewhat
tempered by my current mood but I guess I can toss out a few:
In the jazz realm: Eric Dolphy, Coltrane (of course), Marty
Ehrlich, Betty Carter, lots more...
Moving on to: Bach (piano music especially, oh, but also the St
Matthew Passion) Beethoven, Brahms...
From the sublime to... Springsteen (i grew up in NJ) Jeff Buckly,
I love going to the movies and don't do it nearly often enough.
Some of my favorites on the screen are The Apu Trilogy and The
Singing Detective (that was actually on TV a long time ago)
I recently had a lobster roll sandwich from those guys at who run
the Red Hook Lobster Pound and I think it was one of the most
delicious meals I've ever eaten.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
the left side of the radio dial
elm trees (particularly the ones in Central Park's Literary
movement of all kinds, internal and external
possibility and connection
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Lets talk about this one, OK?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Spending time with my daughter and some of our friends or out at a
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I enjoy ironing even if I don't do it very often.
You should message me if
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You are intrigued and understand that I'm serious yet playful;
introspective yet vibrant.
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