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27 F Helsinki, Finland

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 4:31am
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Strictly vegetarian
Not at all
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t want kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Finnish (Fluently), German (Fluently), Swedish (Okay), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm silly, feminine, pansexual and polyamorous.
I've mostly been interested in androgynous or otherwise genderqueer people when it comes to romantic relationships so I don't really feel like labeling myself bisexual.

I have an old profile on OkCupid
under the name Sadovsky. I hope this new profile will be more like me.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a happy librarian, finally. I don't have much spare time at the moment, so mainly I work, eat and sleep.

I'm in two committed relationships and I have absolutely no intention to date anyone else at the moment - sorry, but time is a limited thing. I'm very happy with my life, which is full of love, food, bunnies and friends.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
drawing little creatures, drinking coffee, cooking delicious food. Talking about people, relationships and literature.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I stutter and laugh a lot, I have long hair and we make the cutest couple with my spouse. I'm flirty and outspoken. I'm cuddling someone and prefer floors to chairs.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books (authors): Virginia Woolf, Jane Austen, Ingeborg Bachmann, Elfriede Jelinek, Milan Kundera, Edith Södergran, Mirkka Rekola, Sarah Waters and A. M. Homes.

Movies: Before Sunrise and Before Sunset, The Hours, Gia, Girl, Interrupted, 3-Iron (Bin-jip), Fingersmith, Ponyo, Sancharram, La Tourneuse de pages, Big Bang Love (Juvenile A).

Music: Portishead, Patricia Barber, Joan Baez, Beth Gibbons, Kaija Koo, Tracy Chapman, Cassandra Wilson, Feist, Tori Amos, Natacha Atlas, Souad Massi, Khadja Nïn, Darren Hayes, Adele, Rihanna. Klezmer, bhangra and anything with strings.

Food: Vegetarian, greasy and spicy. Ginger, garlic, eggplant and soy are my favorites at the moment.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my loved ones, sleep, privacy, cuddles, the internet and at least some purpose in life.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
fluffy little bunnies, my relationships, injustice, literature, friends, coffee, polyamory, furniture, the Sims, platypuses, aesthetic experiences. Love, sex, dressing up, gender roles, inspiration, art and the combination of these.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
sleeping. Playing the Sims or Pokémon, watching CSI. I might be seeing my friends, dancing or just cuddling with my loved ones (this includes two bunnies).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm open about anything regarding myself as soon as I'm comfortable with someone.

I wear fluffy platypus slippers (or spider slippers) almost all the time at home. (Our new apartment is so warm I'm not able to wear them so often now. It makes both me and them sad.)
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 20–72
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, short-term dating
You should message me if
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you're interested in me, but I usually don't reply. I know it's not the way to make friends but I just can't get myself to answer most messages. Even if I'm actually interested I find it hard to write anything these days.