Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
This is what I know about myself so far, character and values
subject to change without notice))):
It takes a while for people to get to know me, although I’m pretty
outgoing in my own way.
I like making people comfortable in my presence, I care about their
wellbeing and can entertain and enrich their lives. I am observant,
perceptive and aware of others, I love watching people and figuring
out what they think and feel. That may result in thoughtful gifts
I get attached to people deeply and sometimes have a hard time
It’s difficult for me to say no, I dislike conflict and
confrontation, and can have a hard time expressing negative
feelings, especially to the people I care about.
I appreciate when people are truly interested in who I am and take
time to get to know me, people who are non-judgemental and I can be
myself around them.
I value deep intimate connections that last for a long time.
Im very emotional being and appreciate a partner who can ground
I don’t like greedy men. I don’t need grand gestures, but I truly
appreciate men who enjoy the act of giving. It’s most important for
me when love is expressed through actions. Words are nice but they
can be empty without actions.
I need quite a bit of attention and appreciate being seriously
invested in each others’ lives. On the other hand, my personal
space and time are very important to me.
I have no desire to lead and control, neither I like to do that to
I am independent in my thinking and go about things at my own pace,
not very influenced by popular culture. I am very tolerant to
different lifestyles and beliefs and averted by quick and blunt
I appreciate good advice, especially if someone sees the
opportunity I overlooked.
I also don’t enjoy planning and organizing (anything) so I truly
appreciate people who can and like doing that, when it’s needed. I
can be spontaneous and impulsive, and feel that I really need to
follow these impulses to feel alive.
I am very competitive in my professional area (visual arts), so I
probably won’t be able to date anyone in the same area, but you
never know. Other arts are ok)))
Tactile, kinesthetic and sensual aspects are important parts of
expression of love for me. Giving and receiving touch, being
sensitive and finely tuned into the needs of the other in that area
is crucial. Being able to express feeling without words is most
beautiful and direct way of communication. If you have words that’s
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
on a constant search of getting closer to being true to me. sound
selfish? and meeting amazing people along the way, howzat? in the
down to earth terms, a better job, and people to share my life
upd: recognizing my real needs and wishes. coming to terms with my
own personality as it is as a result of all the life events and
conditioning, and not as i imagined it. coming to terms with being
ok with solitude and concentrating on tasks at hand. grounding.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
spelling. (more stuff to come))))
yoga poses balancing on one foot
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
lean? curly hair? slight accent? you tell me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
food - anything healthy, not because it is fashionable, i don't
really care about that, some of it just tastes better. sushi.
generally i don't go out a lot, so i can't tell the particular
"cuisine" preferences. neither i have great cooking skills.
although some people have survived and even complimented on the
palatability of my meals, i'm looking forward to the time someone
invents a food pill to save time on cooking and consuming. but - i
don't mind if someone cares enough to cook for me, i would help to
books - i devour them like crazy (update - taking a little break
from books at the time), especially in russian, but english is ok,
too. fiction, non-fiction, some psychology.
movies - i dont own a tv and occasionally passing by it i can stop
and watch something from the middle if i like it. last time it was
a random comedy. i like everything by studio ghibli. historical,
nature and documentary shows are good too, but generally i have no
time for the blue screen. too many screens in my life already:
computer, laptop, tablet, phone... i watch stuff (rather, listen)
when i draw or when i'm completely burned out.
music - i have a huge collection of over 10 years of music, most of
it is still relevant. ethnic, folk, ambient, in lesser proportion
mixed with rock, punk and indie.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
sugar, anything but its crystallized form, trying to eat it
nature - trees, animals, air, light
expression - through visual art and dance
travel - this is when i become an extrovert. i like being alone in
the crowd, watching people and interacting with no expectations
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
about thinking. about people stuff, how they act, emotions,
relationships. my next project. how to make tasty food last longer
and non-tasty go away. why do i have so much stuff and how to make
that go away)))) how to do what i do better. how to do everything i
want and still have some sleep. how to think less. you get the
idea, i think a lot)))))
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
going to my dance improv class, and then maybe going out with my
dance buddies, but most likely not.
this year is going to be all about career goals, so my friday
nights might be even more boring than usual, for the outside view
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