Some words I would use to describe myself would be fun-loving,
free-thinking, spontaneous, open-minded, direct, honest, and
libertarian. I have a low tolerance for bullshit and sometimes get
myself into trouble with my big mouth lol. Anyway, I would say I am
probably one of the most open minded people you could ever meet. I
believe morals and social norms are all relative. I believe people
are individuals with free choice. I believe you should judge
someone by who they are in that moment, not by an idea you have of
them, or by their past or perceived future prospects. I am in touch
with both the divine masculine and feminine within myself- we all
have this. It's just a matter of accepting and embracing that
duality. I think the question of masculinity doesn't require an
answer. In short, if you identify as a man, you are masculine by
definition. All of these strict boundaries and rules are limiting
and silly. I have known straight men who were effeminate bottoms,
and gay men who were the pinnacle of this American [working class]
ideal of hypermasculinity. The spectrum has a full range. Point is,
too many gays these days are putting up walls and trying to conform
like the Mattachine Society, to the exclusion of your more visible
brothers and sisters.
I do enjoy conversations, and hanging out, and making new friends.
I'm also looking for someone to date, eventually. I like to let
things flow and see what happens. :)
What I’m doing with my life
I'm currently an LPN who works with the elderly population. Going
back to school this Summer. In the meantime I also devote a lot of
time to going to the gym, and watching Netflix. haha
I’m really good at
Cooking, sex, umm... Spelling ... Writing, seeing through bullshit
The first things people usually notice about me
Not sure. Probably my height (6'2), my blue eyes, my cripplingly
low self esteem ? Lol jk
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music- I like a little of everything, but rock is my go-to music.
It speaks to me. Specifically grunge and riot grrl from the 90s.
Random fav bands/artists- Hole, L7, Bikini Kill, Veruca Salt,
Garbage, Sonic Youth, Radiohead, Nirvana, Smashing Pumpkins,
Deftones, Tool, Marilyn Manson, Heart, Pink Floyd, Mamas and the
Papas, the Carpenters, the Vines, Sum 41, Destiny's Child, Spice
Girls, Sheryl Crow, Fiona Apple, Alanis Morrissette, Die Antwoord,
Lady Gaga, Madonna, Rick James... The list goes on. I also dig jazz
and classical any time.
Books- Anything fantasy (Lord of the Rings, Harry Potter, The Once
and Future King, Narnia), and most 19th century British literature
(Dickens, Austen, the Brontes)
Movies- I love going to the movies or watching with others at home.
Most anything, but especially comedy or documentary. Or fucked up
drama and some horror
Food- I love cooking and eating! Love to try new things. But I do
watch my carb intake.
The six things I could never do without
I think we could all do without much more than we think we could,
if given no other option. With that said, my spoiled American
viewpoint would pick the following six things-
1. My freedom of expression
3. Sex and/or porn (self lovin'!)
4. A sense of mystery and magic in the world
6. Ability to smell
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The world and my place in it, civilization, sociology, politics
On a typical Friday night I am
Going to bed early. I work weekends right now, out of choice. :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Idk. I'm a pretty open book.