Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Dear True Love,
A lot of women may read this - but I am talking to you, and only
First of all, we are going to have to come up with a better story
of how we met.
Like... you and I were parachuting and we accidentally collided in
mid-air. Or You got kicked out of the Tardis onto my front lawn. Or
you nursed me back to health after I rescued a cat from a burning
building... you know something like that. "We met online" is a
And I sure am glad to meet you. I've been through a lot of learning
experiences and I am really ready to have found the one who I can
grow a lasting relationship and family with. I'm glad that you,
like me, are at a place in your life where we don't need more kids
but can love deeply and raise those we have. I'm glad you, like me,
take care of yourself - exercising and eating right to keep your
body healthy so we can enjoy all the wonderful adventures and
possibilities life has to offer us. I can't wait to explore Europe
with you one day. Spend time splashing in crystal blue waters.
Hiking through the trails and by the river here in Virginia. Out
dancing now and then. Living a physical lifestyle.
I'm glad you, like me, enjoy the closeness of dear friends we can
laugh with. And that we both might be the kind who recharge cuddled
up in each other's arms at night - but also like to get out and be
It's great that we both have our own varied interests - but also
appreciate each other's. So we always have something to bring to
the relationship. Things to talk about. Do. Explore.
We are both so lucky to have found another kindred soul that has
nothing to prove. We both know that we are enough. We can excel for
the pleasure of it and because it grows our wealth of possibilities
in life - but not because we have to prove our own competence. We
can celebrate in gratitude the love of our families and friends but
don't worry about fitting in or being left out. We appreciate our
freedom but don't have to run from anything. We keep each other
safe - but don't let comfort keep us from adventure.
We are both mature enough that we can trust each other to always be
acting for our mutual best interests. So we can discuss anything
deeply without offense or the need to be "right." To come to
understandings rather than wallow in the pig stye of
self-righteousness. We both can balance compassion and
responsibility; seriousness and humor; acceptance and
I am so glad that we both hold optimism and passion for living as
core values and work hard to live those values every day.
We both enjoy the feeling of creating - whether it's a joke, a
date, playing a game or enjoying a music or crafty kind of project.
Being participants in life.
We trust each other deeply. You have the emotional power in the
relationship and I would do and will do anything to make you happy.
But you have so much trust and faith in me that you have gifted me
with leadership of our family. I won't let you down.
Neither of us is perfect. But we can both forgive. We can both grow
- and we do - because both of us hold personal growth and
relationship growth as a value.
Oh, and the sex is un-fucking-believable.
I have missed you without even knowing you. I love you.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Professionally: I am a clinical hypnotist and am starting a
state-certified vocational school for hypnotists. I am also a
part-time traveling entertainer at colleges and theaters. I work to
manifest a better life in one and laugh in the other. I'm
Personally: I spend time with my two boys whenever I can (two days
a week plus every other weekend) playing, taking them to the river,
to movies, museums, etc.
The rest of the time I spend time playing games with friends
, play in a drum
or performance art. I go to theater
productions and to enjoy
music to see my
enjoy getting together and talking spirituality
I more spiritual than religious - but very much so.
I like laughing about life, wandering down Cary street
, or the river
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making true friends. Making people laugh or go "what the hell?!"
Achieving goals. Loving. Playing. Planning. Coaching. Counseling.
Playing a mean blues guitar riff. Being me.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am green, eight foot tall, have a unibrow and large
Or that I like to wear a tea towel as a cape and large yellow
booties as I run around in the house in my underwear pretending to
be a superhero.
And sometimes my eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Food: I am a recovering vegetarian.
Books: Harry Potter, A Course in Miracles, the Power of NOW, Tony
Robbins stuff, Hitchikers guide to the galaxy, Tao te ching, Dean
Movies: life is beautiful, raiders of the lost ark and star wars
(the originals), something about Mary, blues brothers, hangover, oh
lots of stuff...
Music: again, lots of stuff... Jack Johnson, Smash Mouth, Sting,
Beatles, Al DiMeola, Coldplay, Grateful Dead, Amy Winehouse, Etta
James, Clapton, John Mayer, Five times August, Kings of
Convenience, Regina Spektor and generally brilliant and creative
artists of all kinds...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
the rest of my family
the ability to ignore instructions and put down seven or eight if I
damn well feel like it
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Stuff to do with my kids when I get 'em, how to help my clients and
grow my business, time with friends, fun things to do on the
weekend/evenings, creative projects, how to get on stage more
often, how to make the world a better place and what am I going to
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out with somebody I care about - my kids or with good
friends... Seeing or performing in a show, riding my bike around
town, gone to the river, renting a movie... Something fun.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am really a secret agent and fighter pilot. Shhh... don't tell
You should message me if
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creative thinker, take care of yourself and are comfortable in your
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