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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 31–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from Ph.D program
Rather not say
My self-summary
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Renaissance man in search of dynamic, independent, smart and fun woman for cerebral, cultural, natural and mindless pursuits both near and far.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
dancing tango
being present
reading literature in translation
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
finding ripe mangos
being real
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
either my luxurious hair or my potential to change the world.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books... The Windup Bird Chronicles, The Brothers Karamazov, Hard Travel to Sacred Places, The Little Prince, Labyrinths, Lolita, Selected Poems of Mary Oliver, Coming of Age in the Milky Way, The Snow Leopard.

Films... The Passion of Anna and a host of other Bergman films, My Life as a Dog, The Apu Trilogy, The Tree of Wooden Clogs, Into Great Stillness, After Life, Don't Die Without Telling Me Where You're Going (I know, schmaltziest title ever for a great Argentinian film), Food, Inc.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
friends and family, bien sur
beyond that, I don't require much... it seems I'm attached to the internet but I do like to find ways to be offline.
Beyond that, I love my bicycle and in traveling make sure to bring my journal and pen as well as a good novel.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
You know, serious stuff like how we can start getting out of our present environmental messes (yes, plural). How to raise awareness about endangered species. How I can increase traffic to my enviro-blog... Not so serious stuff like whether I should get my hair cut today or to put it off another week... Romantic stuff like whether someone on OkC will find me... Juicy stuff like sex... Dreamy stuff like what to write for the Great American Novel... Fun stuff like where to travel to next... Crazy stuff like whether I should quit my job and travel round the world... Life is short, after all.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
laying low
having a drink with friends
at a film
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Ideally you subscribe to the New Yorker and will let me read it, thus relieving me of the burden of keeping up with it myself.
You should message me if
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you have an active sense of humor, like cultural as well as outdoor pursuits (hiking, cycling, x-c skiing, yes, even camping) and can occasionally read my mind. Despite the list above, personal connection is what's most important to me -- I'm looking for a relationship and hope you are too.