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33 • M • Philadelphia, PA
- Last Online
- Today – 7:54pm
- Asian, White, Other
- 5′ 11″ (1.80m)
- Body Type
- Mostly vegetarian
- Not at all
- Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
- Graduated from university
- Relationship Status
- Relationship Type
And in the interest of full disclosure, I'm not very good at: staying focused without a myriad of calendars and alarms, settling for mediocrity, leading a narrow existence, engaging in pursuits without some kind of a higher purpose.
Bach is basically constantly flowing through my blood. I'm coming off of a Mahler kick and getting back into opera - fortunately, my downstairs neighbor seems to share similar tastes for his 4 am playlists. Varyingly obsessed with Blonde Redhead, Neutral Milk Hotel, Belle & Sebastian, Arcade Fire, Beirut, Stars, Broken Social Scene, Explosions in the Sky, Sonic Youth, Godspeed!, Pavement, etc. Flavors du jour include Jagwar Ma, Beach House, Dirty Projectors, Julia Holter, Bat for Lashes, Grizzly Bear, blah blah you get the idea.
I love cryptic lyrics and inventive language. Transparency is incredibly boring. I hate boring. It's a constant battle.
There's a disassembled keyboard in the corner of my apartment, and a violin that I do my best to keep up with, and that I adore. Sometimes I play with an orchestra in town.
Yes, still in love with NMH.
I'm working my through the requisite premed reading lists, but I was originally/still am an English Lit kind of person. I am interested in critical theory, but I claim no authority in this department (was late to the game). I connect to the likes of Pynchon, Calvino, Kafka, etc. I am somewhat embarassed by the predictably narrow range represented on my bookshelf; I hope to remedy this.
I like good food, but the foodie movement makes me nauseous...something to do with the link between decadence and the collapse of empire. Chance are I like what you like, unless you're into coprophilia. Let's just pretend I didn't mention that.
I enjoy "artsy" kinds of films and documentaries. I melt for Wong Kar Wai flicks. I've also experienced a resurgence of interest in the Brothers Quay and weird animated Czech pieces. I've been known to stop and videocap random animal courtship displays in the park; it makes me laugh and anything that lessens the seriousness of this is whole "human being" pursuit is worth the chance of public mockery.
2. Things to read
3. Honest friends
5. Music and other beautiful things
AND a lot of other things. More important things, things to improve this totally fucked world. I like doing good but I'm not a do-gooder.
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