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5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
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Buddhism and laughing about it
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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Okay, now that you've stopped oogling my pictures and objectifying me, here is a little about me. :) I'm introspective and spend time every day in silence however I certainly have a side of me where I would take you out, enjoy a fun evening and chat it up with your friends. I'm very Gemini in nature and I embrace it rather than feeling like I need to adjust myself.

I work as a veterinarian working in SF and love cats and dogs and most animals except monkeys and killer whales. They are kinda the assholes of the animal kingdom Outside of work I enjoy music, SUP, hiking, being with friends and colleagues and boxing. Alongside that I do yearly meditation retreats, meditate daily and read a lot of philosophy i.e. Buddhism, non-duality, psychology, poetry. At this point in my life, I feel fairly complete in my own skin and want to spend my time and energy deeply living and fulfulling natural passions. That being said I find friendship, truth, love, living to a full human potential more important than material gains, status; however I would not deny the importance of having some degree of financial security. I've got a white collar education and a blue collar work ethic like my family. I don't mind working hard for a good life.

I heard once from a buddhist teacher say that at the end of one's life many people yearned to let go more, love more deeply and forgive. I feel this is exactly how I live and it's the best thing ever. Even better than having 20 million in the bank

I love island vacationing and have spent a lot of time in hawaii vacationing and volunteering with animals there. Taking a rental car, driving across an island, having big and small conversations, tasting local foods, and feeling oneness in nature is something I love. Maybe you do too.
What I’m doing with my life
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work, enjoying being a grown up with grown up stuff to do, guitaring, reading, meditating, concerts occasionally, going to the south bay to see friends, outdoors activities, fly fishing.
I’m really good at
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Arm wrestling, fixing toilets, guessing people's weights.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I've got strong legs. Like horse.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Generally a non-fiction kind of guy, philosophy/spirituality, psychology. The Sex Life of Cannibals, anything by Adyashanti, Krishnamurti and Eckhart Tolle
Foods- Breakfast foods. Fried brussel sprouts with butter. The sandwich that is about to be made for me.
Music: Josh ritter, Jackson Browne, Rocky Votolato, Allman Brothers, Eric Johnson, Jackie Greene, josh rouse, Hall and Oates, Jake Shimkaburo, Leonard Cohen
TV shows: Walking dead, Dexter, Criminal Minds
Movies- Supertroopers, The interview, Star Wars, all the comic movies. Even the really bad ones.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The outdoors
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
A career in veterinary pathology, tinkering with applying to medical school(the human kind), returning to Hawaii for the 3rd time to vacation and teach.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Netflix night, time spent with friends, cozying up with a book, catching up with family. I can find contentment doing a lot of things including just enjoying a quiet night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I didn't grow chest hair until I was 30, I like Borat, The Interview. Pretty much the really raunchy kind of humor. I like a woman that can respect or at the very least tolerate it.
You should message me if
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you are looking for happiness in all the right places.... and some wrong places I guess.