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35 Mill Valley, CA Man


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  • Ages 25–40
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5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Graduated from med school
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Okay, now that you've stopped oogling my pictures and objectifying me, here is a little about me. I'm a veterinarian working in SF and I like to read, enjoy stand up paddleboarding, boxing, pets, pay-per-view boxing, living an introspective/engaged life.

I've spent a lot of time in my younger days pursuing a career and life circumstances (stuff I have, degrees, trips, etc.) only to find that the seeking of an abiding satisfaction and peace does not come from experience and degrees and the american dream is not a great recipe for the happiness but it's not nothing. I'm fairly settled in a content, non-seeking kind of way and meeting someone who knows this and thinks it is important too would be great.

I like adventure, quiet, introspection, a challenge, teasing, practical jokes, being kind and going with your gut.

INJ#%@!% whatever... I try to talk when it's meaningful, find great intimacy in silence, find connection to be very important but not wired to be a constant talker. There is a lot of shit happening in the silence of life :)

Lastly, spirituality is very important to me. Not as a belief system, ritual or an ideal but to help orient oneself towards true autonomy, recognition of what is true, learning when to let go and loving deeply in an intelligent, non-sloppy kind of way.
What I’m doing with my life
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evolving as a clinician, enjoying being a grown up with grown up stuff to do, guitaring, reading, keeping fit, meditating, concerts occasionally, going to the south bay to see friends, outdoors activities, fly fishing, acting on a whim (mini golf, spontaneous road trips, random snack runs).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
jump roping, having good posture, arm wrestling, drinking black coffee, going on youtube to learn to fix household appliances, guessing weight , jabs(boxing).

I'm really bad at guessing the sex of androgenous people. I just called a lady with a 1980s Eric Estrada haircut a mister. I fumbled and walked out of the room, thought about having a cigarette and a drink.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I've got strong legs. Like horse.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Just a list of books I've read and got something from. I'm a non-fiction kinda guy: The Sex Life of Cannibals, After the Ecstasy the Laundry, Life on Planet China,SF Chronicle, anything by Adyashanti, The Birth of Korean Kool, Huffington post, books on psychology, Buddhism, relationships.
Foods- anything I don't have to cook. The sandwich that is about to be made for me. Extra mayo.
Music: josh ritter, Jackson Browne, Rocky Votolato, Allman Brothers, Eric Johnson, Jackie Greene, josh rouse, Hall and Oates, Jake Shimkaburo, Leonard Cohen
TV: Chapelle show!!, walking dead, Dexter, Criminal Minds
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Sunday mornings
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what is the most important thing to think about. A career in veterinary pathology, tinkering with applying to medical school(the human kind), day dreaming about vacationining at a little condo in Hawaii, island life baby :), returning yearly to Hawaii to teach/ sterilize feral cats, that time I swam with Manta rays, zip lining the next time I head to Hawaii
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Netflix night, night out with a friends, cozying up with a book, practical stuff, catching up with family, meditating, doing absolutely nothing, paying bills. I can find contentment doing a lot of things.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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ok.. i like Borat. A lot. It's rotten but satisfying humor. Ok fine. I had a high pitched voice until I hit 30.
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You can see past my extra-masculine physique.

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