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  • Ages 25–40
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5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Graduated from med school
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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Okay, now that you've stopped oogling my pictures and objectifying me, here is a little about me. :) I'm very introspective however I certainly have a side of me where I would take you out, enjoy a fun evening and chat it up with your friends. Everything about me is Gemini in nature and I have opposing traits in every area you can think of. I thought everyone did but apparently not.

I work as a veterinarian working in SF and love cats and dogs and most animals except monkeys and killer whales. Outside of work I am kinda athletic... running a lot, SUP, hiking, going to the gym, boxing. Alongside that I do yearly meditation retreats, meditate daily and read a lot of philosophy i.e. Buddhism, Advaita vedanta, psychology, poetry. At this point in my life, I am figuring out what truly is important and to use my time and energy towards that. That being said I find friendship, truth, love, living to a full human potential more important than material gains, status; however I would not deny the importance of having some degree of financial security. I've got a white collar education and a blue collar work ethic like my family. I don't mind working hard for a good life.

I heard once from a buddhist teacher say that at the end of one's life many people yearned to let go more, love more deeply and forgive. I feel a pull from the place this comes from more deeply than living for predominantly material gain and security .

I love island vacationing and have spent a lot of time in hawaii vacationing and volunteering with animals there. Taking a rental car, driving across an island, having big and small conversations, tasting local foods, and feeling oneness in nature is something I love. Maybe you do too.
What I’m doing with my life
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work, enjoying being a grown up with grown up stuff to do, guitaring, reading, keeping fit, meditating, concerts occasionally, going to the south bay to see friends, outdoors activities, fly fishing.
I’m really good at
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jump roping,, arm wrestling, fixing toilets, guessing people's weights, jabs.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I've got strong legs. Like horse.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The Sex Life of Cannibals, After the Ecstasy the Laundry, Life on Planet China, SF Chronicle, anything by Adyashanti, The Birth of Korean Kool, , books on psychology, Buddhism, relationships.
Foods- anything I don't have to cook. The sandwich that is about to be made for me. With extra mayo.
Music: josh ritter, Jackson Browne, Rocky Votolato, Allman Brothers, Eric Johnson, Jackie Greene, josh rouse, Hall and Oates, Jake Shimkaburo, Leonard Cohen
TV shows: walking dead, Dexter, Criminal Minds
Movies- Supertroopers, The interview, Borat.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The outdoors
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what is the most important thing to think about. A career in veterinary pathology, tinkering with applying to medical school(the human kind), day dreaming about vacationining at a little condo in Hawaii, island life baby :), returning yearly to Hawaii to teach/ sterilize feral cats, that time I swam with Manta rays, zip lining the next time I head to Hawaii
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Netflix night, time spent with friends, cozying up with a book, catching up with family. I can find contentment doing a lot of things including just enjoying a quiet night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I didn't grow chest hair until I was 30, I like Borat, The Interview. Pretty much the really raunchy kind of humor. I like a woman that can respect or at the very least tolerate it.
You should message me if
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you are looking for happiness in all the right places.... and some wrong places I guess.