I am in a LT live in relationship. My partner has serious (non-contagious) health issues that have all but ended our sex life. A lot of day to day stuff that most people take for granted is gone, so I'm in a strange situation...
I don't have any interest in breaking up my household, but I need the intimacy, closeness, touch, connection and kink that I don't have in my life. I want to find a fun part time partner to cherish and adore and appreciate on multiple levels, but my home life and long term partner will be a priority. This needs to be understood and ok with you or things won't work.
My partner knows I am looking on the side, but doesn't want to know any more than is absolutely necessary. Out of respect for her, discretion is important, and I don't want the two of you competing for my time and energy.
Anyway, now that my situation is very much on the table, here's a bunch more about me and where I'm coming from.
I'm a transplanted east coaster, that finally, after all these years has learned to speak Californian.
I am reasonably intelligent, somewhat well read, and capable of intelligent conversation. I don't take myself too seriously, and hopefully you too have a good sense of humour and light hearted view of the world.
I'm really just an easygoing guy looking for a buddy. Let's talk, connect, get to know each other a bit. If there's chemistry, let's enjoy some simple mutual sensuality. Let's remember how fun it is to take our time kissing and touching and getting to know each other's bodies. Let's enjoy the butterflies in the stomach, the anticipation of the first kiss, the electricity of a good caress...