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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–58
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
May 22
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body type
Judaism, and laughing about it
Graduated from university
Seeing Someone
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
First things first:
I am in a LT live in relationship. My partner has serious (non-contagious) health issues that have all but ended our sex life. A lot of day to day stuff that most people take for granted is gone, so I'm in a strange situation...

I don't have any interest in breaking up my household, but I need the intimacy, closeness, touch, connection and kink that I don't have in my life. I want to find a fun part time partner to cherish and adore and appreciate on multiple levels, but my home life and long term partner will be a priority. This needs to be understood and ok with you or things won't work.

My partner knows I am looking on the side, but doesn't want to know any more than is absolutely necessary. Out of respect for her, discretion is important, and I don't want the two of you competing for my time and energy.

Anyway, now that my situation is very much on the table, here's a bunch more about me and where I'm coming from.

I'm a transplanted east coaster, that finally, after all these years has learned to speak Californian.

I am reasonably intelligent, somewhat well read, and capable of intelligent conversation. I don't take myself too seriously, and hopefully you too have a good sense of humour and light hearted view of the world.

I'm really just an easygoing guy looking for a buddy. Let's talk, connect, get to know each other a bit. If there's chemistry, let's enjoy some simple mutual sensuality. Let's remember how fun it is to take our time kissing and touching and getting to know each other's bodies. Let's enjoy the butterflies in the stomach, the anticipation of the first kiss, the electricity of a good caress...

I have found a wonderful woman to play with. We have established a solid, open, and very HOT friendship with a strong dose of kink and Ds. To spell it out more, she is a wonderful submissive, and I am dominant. We both are very interested in finding another woman to join us for friendship and play. Her profile is V3nusinFurs
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Gave up a lucrative decade+ career as an engineer to cook for a living. Make a lot less money, but enjoying life a hell of a lot more.

Cooking and food is a big part of my life - business and pleasure.

I play ice hockey, I LIVE for the outdoors, hiking, backpacking when I can, and mushroom hunting. Was a pretty serious musician, but these days, more just for my own amusement.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Finding the joy in the little things in life
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I'm all about cooking whatever is fresh, seasonal, and preferably local. I cook based on what ingredients look good rather than finding ingredients to make something preconceived.
I like everything from the local taqueria to the michelin star experience.

The first few movies that come to my mind...
True Romance, Trading Places, Princess Bride, Caddyshack

Tolkein, Nietzsche, Harry Potter, The Dune books... These days, I'm more likely to be reading some history/nonfiction/biography or one of the million cookbooks I have, just looking for ideas.

Motown to Primus to Ella Fitzgerald to 80's punk to 70's funk to Jimi to the Beatles to Dylan to random show tunes.

NPR probably gets as much listening as any music.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Great food
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How (real) vanilla has one of the most complex, interesting aromas and flavors you'll ever find, but has become synonymous with plain and boring.
Where am I gonna go mushroom hunting on my next day off.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am not sure I have anything private to mention. I'm a pretty open book. If you wanna know anything, just ask.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You have an interest in mushroom hunting.
you LIVE to kiss and would like to find an occasional makeout buddy.
You have an oral fixation, like I do.
You read the update above and are intrigued by the possibilities (or would like to know more about our situation)
She is V3nusinFurs on here