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malbrigo

30 / F / gay / Single

Seattle, Washington

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
Undeclared
Height
5' 1" (1.54m).
Body Type
Curvy
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other but not too serious about it
Sign
Taurus and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Student
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Owns dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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I am adventurous, quirky, and happy.

My Self-Summary

I love to laugh and to try new things. I'm fun, outgoing, quirky, bubbly, interesting, sometimes shy. I am bisexual -I am attracted to people, not what sex they are- but right now I'm looking to explore more relationships with women. I would like to start relationships of any kind with friendship so if casual/non-attached sex is high up on your list we may not be compatible.

I've been in a long-term (over 10yr) relationship and have been single now for just over a year. I'm learning more about myself, my wants, desires and needs. I want to explore this part of my life more and grow and learn and know exactly what I want before I try any long-term primary relationships again.

I believe that it takes less energy and is easier to be happy and love everyone then to be angry or be worried. Unfortunately I can't always get away from being worried. I don't entirely know where my life is going, but I try to enjoy the adventure everyday.

I just recently enrolled in school in a horticulture and I'm loving it! This is something I've wanted to do for at least the past 5 years. My eventual goals are to continue on into some sort of Urban horticulture and development/Urban planning program. I also want to learn more about urban agriculture and sustainability and herbology.

I like a lot of different things, here are some: reading, knitting, yoga, bike riding, hiking, rollerblading, comics, gardening, herbology, camping, rock climbing, cooking, coffee, hanging with friends, kitchen experiments, sustainable living, I'll try almost everything once.

Want to know something more? ask me.

What I’m doing with my life

Enjoying it! :)

Exploring the opportunities, trying new things. having fun. Changing directions, opening up, learning.

The first things people usually notice about me

I'm short. 5'1" to be exact. for some reason everyone wants to point that out. what? you think I didn't know how tall I was??? It amuses me :)

Or my smile or my hair or my curves.

I don't know, I'm not peoples. I'm me.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: I love to read and read almost everything. I have a horrible memory for names of books and authors which is odd since books are one of my 'oldest' loves. If I haven't read it recently you'll have to tell me the story line for me to know exactly which book you're talking about (unless I loved it, and then I'll know exactly what you're talking about!). Currently, I'm reading a lot of school books, like 'Botany for Gardeners' and in any extra reading time I'm reading books about communication and relationships.

I'm not reading nearly enough these days! a few of my favorite authors are Isabelle Allende, Gabriel Garcia Marquez, George R. R. Martin and Jules Verne and Pablo Neruda.

Music: I listen to everything except rap and country. literally. Fav music leans towards punk and rock but I'll listen to everything.

The six things I could never do without

this is a silly question but here's a few things I don't want to live without (in no particular order) : friends, yarn, books, gardening, sex, the outdoors, physical touch, trying new things, hot showers, intentional family, delicious food, comfy beds, cuddling, tea, my laptop and my kitten.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

....lots and lots of random things

On a typical Friday night I am

lately-studying. and studying. and procrastinating. and thinking. and listening. and wondering. and searching. and finding contentment.

and then studying some more ;D

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I'm not as confidant as I sound.

You should message me if

you want to, you understand people who want new friends, want to have time for new friends but have very little time. you understand something about people being in a changing and growing point in their life (and that this is a positive thing), you understand something about being bi and poly and you understand that the labels aren't important-love, laughter, friendship, intentional family and conscious choice are the important things. you just want to talk, you want to meet up and do something fun and you're willing to plan up to 2 or 3 weeks ahead or you don't mind if meeting up to do something means I have a 2 hour window and would love to chat, have a cup of coffee or tea and maybe take a walk and stop thinking about homework for a few minutes!