Jugglers: I'm looking for folks in the South Bay to practice club passing with, so if you know how & don't mind dealing with someone else's learning curve, drop me a line.
I'm a very open person, and I believe that privacy and discretion can be had without keeping secrets.
The main figures in my life are my young daughter, my husband andan and his girlfriend, and my boyfriend. Polyamory (poly, polyamorous,open relationship) is where it's at for me. YMMV.
Laughter is essential, probably more essential to me than chocolate. I live my life with the goal to be happy, healthy and continually evolving. That’s a lot of pressure, so I lighten the load with a healthy respect for my own absurdity. Oh, and cupcakes.
I’ll tell you that honesty is more important to me than sparing my feelings, and I’ll really mean it. Compassion is also important, and I believe that honesty and compassion make excellent bedfellows.
I love things that are shiny, and I mean that in the Firefly sense as well as the literal sense. I’m highly visual, which is one of the reasons I get so much satisfaction out of photography.
I don’t have regrets. You’re probably saying “Yeah, right” but it’s true. Even the most horrid things that have happened to me have had some lesson, some purpose, something I could take away that has made me who I am at this exact moment. I wouldn’t change any of those things for all of the cupcakes in China. I like who I am, even knowing that I have more to learn, more to improve, more to be.
I cherish my freedom of speech, my right to vote, to assemble, and to generally conduct my life as I feel is appropriate, though there are still a few human rights that need to be more liberally applied. I cherish your right to disagree with me, and your right to vote and assemble and live your life as you see fit.
"Freedom to write, freedom to read, freedom to own material that you believe is worth defending means you're going to have to stand up for stuff you don't believe is worth defending, even stuff you find actively distasteful, because laws are big blunt instruments that do not differentiate between what you like and what you don't, because prosecutors are humans and bear grudges and fight for re-election, because one person's obscenity is another person's art. Because if you don't stand up for the stuff you don't like, when they come for the stuff you do like, you've already lost. " --Neil Gaiman