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54 Monongahela, PA Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 30-60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Sep 22, 2011
5' 8" (1.73m)
Not at all
Other and laughing about it
Doesn’t want kids
Has cats
My self-summary
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hi, I'm Paula, I'm a 46 yo Bisexual BBW in renal failure since 2006. when I'm not at dialysis MWF AM'S i volunteer at a Center for Independent living were i worked before i went in to ESRD. I'm long time GEEK, heavily (pun intended) in Fandom, if you don't understand why I have video racks and book cases lining my LIVINGROOM MOVE ON, what would we talk about? you cant own to many DVDs or books

I mostly am on Livejournal under mamabest, ditto Myspace. grouply is mama_beast (see a pattern?? ask me what mamabeast came from)

My Cats are my family, I have no relatives otherwise, my best friends are states away from me and the friends I have here are mostly users and posers who try and change me or just use me when they need something.

I am geeky, bitchy, and a hermit
What I’m doing with my life
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I am a good at fixing everyone elses problems, i can help with getting you houseing, medical insurance, social services what have you for SW PA, found my best friend her fiance, but i'm a disaster area but its my life. i'mm not good at taking care of myself, especially now that i'm on dialysis. i trust easily then wait to see how you're going to screw me over cause it always happens. I cant drink booze (never did after college), so i dont do bars or clubs unless its a sports bar with good food and big screens. my best day is book shopping with a decent meal.
I’m really good at
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sci fi trivia (top .1% on facebook Torchwood trivia), book buying, i am a talented amatur with computer stuff, playing with my cats
The first things people usually notice about me
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i'm FAT, get over it (this doesnt mean i'm easy, desperate or have low standards)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies: Star wars 4-6, Bull Durham, the Lethal Weapon Movies, the Die Hard Movies, mostly things that go BOOM type

Books: The Liaden Universe books, McCaferty's the ship who series & Lyons Pride Series, the Sookie Stackhouse books, Anne Rices early Vampire books

Music I'm the only left wing liberal who listens to Country music


Food: Dead Cow in most varieties, fried chicken, chicken rice a roni
The six things I could never do without
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a computer hooked up to the internet
digital cable
my Torchwood DVDs
my cats
my books
McDonald's Sweet Tea
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
GAreth David-Llyod naked
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
watching Torchwood DVD's, catching upon DVR stuff, looking for standup comedy of a decent quaity, talking with Wren
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I've been on 3 dates in my life
You should message me if
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you can have an intelligent conversation, you think vampires, werewolves and Jack Harkness are cool, you don't think that a 10 mile hike is a good time, you understand having cable internet and living on mac & cheese to pay for it, museums and a hockey game have the same appeal, jeopardy is must see TV