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mandy1971

43 Chesterton, IN Woman

Woman

I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 34–54
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 7:04am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body type
Curvy
Diet
Smokes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Education
University
Job
Other
Income
Status
Single
Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Just plugging along til I win that darned lottery. ;) I probably should play......
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a mom of 3. I'm also the President of a Non Profit that I started in 2008. Full time- I am working at a grain elevator.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking. Becoming a master smoker. Smoke a mean brisket and pork shoulder. Anyone ever tried a pig shot??? That's next!
Gardening...mostly perennial.
Finding humor in situations.
Organizing fundraisers.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile or my eyes, initially. Once they start chatting with me, it's my sense of humor. At least, this is what I've been told. :)

YOU should tell me after we meet.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I wish I had time to read. I used to be an avid reader. Not a lot of time for movies, either. I have to really want to see a movie to take 2 hours out of my day for one. I can be bribed with popcorn, however. ;)

I like pretty much all music. Lately I have been stuck in the 70's. Or Toto's "Hold the Line." <--- Earworm.

Food? Meat, especially off of the smoker. NO seafood. Bleck.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family
Friends
Health
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I always wonder if I made a right decision. Nothing feels better than looking back and being happy that I went with my gut and it all turned out ok.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Do I have my kids? Then I'm hanging out with them. Otherwise I am spending time with my friends. We like trying new restaurants, seeing live music or playing Cards Against Humanity. So fun!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I can respect a guy that cries. However, if you cry more than me (and I don't cry often), I'm going to make fun of you. Just so you know...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are looking for a relationship. You are single. You are FUNNY. I am happiest when I'm laughing! Who isn't?