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34 Jersey City, NJ Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 29–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 20
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs

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My self-summary
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I'm originally from the midwest, but have lived in the city about 11 years now. I love the energy here and its what drove me to originally take the leap and move.
Does anyone read these? Because I have zero interest in writing a self essay! I'd rather get to know someone the old fashioned way - over a drink!
What I’m doing with my life
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everything in my life is pretty much perfect and on track, now just looking for someone to share it with!

In the meantime....I spend my days running a high-end spa. And no, I don't spend all day getting massages, although I am fortunate to probably have more than the average person. It's a lot of work and takes up a lot of my time but I have an amazing team and usually pleasant clients, which makes it all worthwhile.

In the past 6 months I've been to Costa Rica, Denver, Chicago, Mexico, Ohio to visit my parents, and Alaska. I like to get out of the city at least one weekend a month. I'd really like to visit Australia, Spain and Brazil sometime in the near future.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm a really good at listening and critically thinking my way through a problem.

I'm also a people person and find that I can make people feel comfortable around me very easily. Which I think stems from my empathetic nature.

Having fun. I come from a family whose favorite quote is "we're not here for a long one, we're here for a good time." life is too short to be boring or fuss over the small stuff. We all have our bad days, but in general I like to keep things positive.

Other things I think I'm good at include:
Taking care of others
Giving massages (after working in spas for 8 years a girl picks up a few pointers along the way!)
Making tacos
Travel planning
Remaining calm In sticky situations
Making out
Pulling myself together and getting out the door in the morning, even if I have a massive hangover
The first things people usually notice about me
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My blue eyes. And my smile because it's hard to catch me not smiling.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: I recently read The Time Keeper and Life of Pi. Finally decided to start reading Atlas Shrugged, which I received as a gift ages ago. some of my old favorites are Slaughter House 5, Wuthering Heights, Catch 22.

Shows: Homeland, Boardwalk Empire, True Blood, Downton Abbey, Modern Family, anything on the Cooking channel.

Music: I listen to all types of musics. I love all different genres, just depends on what mood I'm in.

Food: Sushi, Mexican, Thai, Indian, really, I love all cuisines and am happy to have whatever I want whenever I want in this city. However, my favorite dining experience involves me sitting by the beach eating oysters and drinking champagne.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
coffee. (trust me, without it is the only time I can potentially be quite grumpy).
family and friends.
The feeling of warm sunshine on my face.
Water- I love to be in water- pool, ocean, jacuzzi, bathtub - doesn't matter what it is.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Typical is not a word I would use to describe Friday nights. It's always some place different. Either roaming the city and having drinks, cooking dinner for friends, curling up at home with a good book, or jumping on a plane for a weekend getaway.
You should message me if
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You're intelligent, driven, passionate and preferably, sane :)

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