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42 Santa Clara, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 26-45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Oct 7
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Average build
Special Diet
Not at all
Dropped out of Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat), Italian (Somewhat), Other
My self-summary
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Hi there, thanks for stopping by. I used to have a small blurb out here till some peeps felt I was selling myself way too short.

So here we go ... Am like that soft spoken guy next door. Smart but not full of himself. Easy going and down to earth. Internationally well traveled. Likes to hike, cook, travel, chat and read. I have lived and worked on three continents and have thus been immersed in a few cultures and love to talk about them.
Am funny and can make you believe that I speak a bunch of languages. Well I do but not that many. :-)

Some feel I have the gift of the gab and a way with words. But I'll let you draw your own conclusions. Nevertheless, I can keep a good conversation going. Also I am told I am very familiar with the pop culture.

Oh and some friends feel I am straight cut, have pleasing manners, can argue many sides of a political thought, can know which way the wind is blowing, respect women and their spaces, and make people at home. But it better not be mine. :)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Having focused way too long and hard on my career one sunday morning as the sunshine reflected upon the ceiling thru the window I reflected on my life - the career was in great shape but there was no shape of significance there to share the ups and downs with.

Ok ok it was more like afternoon and the sun woke me up and in short I felt it was time to focus on finding a partner. So here you are reading about it. Are you the one?

What do I do? I play the fool. Seriously depends how you look at it. By day I handle investments and startups for a fortune 500 company. By night ... hmm lets keep that for later. :)

I like to play tennis, go for long walks by the ocean, chat about things like the similarities between astrology and big data analytics. If you dont get it - it was just to show u my geeky side we can chat about something else, and if you do lets hear your views. Either case lets talk! LOL

Also I do have a spiritual side and love to meditate. If you do too lets chat!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Playing the fool. Yep you don't need to get me drunk to act silly when I am in the mood. :o)

On a more serious note: I can sustain a good conversation over tea. And if in the mood can strike a conversation with just about anyone.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I am funny, talkative and very easy to get along with.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Non fiction, self help/improvement, biz stuff, etc. Sometimes philosophy if I have time.

Movies: Old westerns, WW II, war movies, comedies, romantic ones (with the right company)

Music: Rock, 70s,80s,90s, country, and whatever the radio plays while I'm driving.

Food: Veggie all - Indian, Italian, Mexican, Continental, Oriental ... u name it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Sunshine, conversations, family, reading, sleeping, laughing. (Not it that order though.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why and for what am I on this planet?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Lazing at home planning something to do then watch TV and sleep. Or hanging out with friends.

And yes - lazing is a word. Google it!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Ask me and I'll tell you a lot more.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
I was able to sustain your curiosity so far. :D

You are single and open to chatting, and hanging out with a vegetarian who does not drink. You dont need to be alcohol and meat free, but just open to hanging out with one.

Oh and did I mention you like a good conversation.

PS: Gold diggers please excuse, all the gold's gone to the last school I attended. :p