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32 Chicago, IL Woman


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 26–36
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My Details

Last Online
Feb 10, 2014
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Swahili (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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What I’m doing with my life
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My days are filled with starting a community health/reproductive justice organization in Chicago and working as a birth and abortion doula. My past life included being a full time activist and being an abortion provider.

Things I like::
live music
weekend brunch
road trips
the smell of autumn
meeting new queers
people who have as much love for Detroit as I do
community healthcare
Kathleen Hanna
feminist activism
people watching
office supplies
farmers markets
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
writing songs for my fake band
starting zines but never finishing them
having spontaneous dance parties
absorbing culture
pretending I can play my accordion
making mix cd's
laughing at inappropriate times
making lists
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my hair? my glasses?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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bell hooks, Anne Lamott, Dorothy Allison, Audre Lorde, Dorothy Roberts, Parker Palmer, and any book of non-fiction essays about pretty much any subject.

make/shift, believer, Yes! magazine, and zines about radical parenting

Shortbus, Rachel Getting Married, The Watermelon Woman, romantic comedies that involve large family gatherings, and lots of random political/social/cultural documentaries.

Paul Simon, Neko Case, Patty Griffin, Indigo Girls, Mos Def, The Supremes, Julie Ruin, Nina Simone, Neutral Milk Hotel, The Be Good Tanyas, old school Whitney Houston, Le Tigre, Blackalicious, Gillian Welch, Old Crow Medicine Show, Neil Young, Bon Iver, Juana Molina, Lovers, Caribou, Darlene Love

Breaking Bad, Parks and Recreation, The Wire, Six Feet Under, The Rachel Maddow Show, Murphy Brown

astronaut ice cream, falafel, and vietnamese spring rolls
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-rhythm and beats
-my chosen family
-a sense of humor
-spell check
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
If cta bus drivers ever get lonely, the intersection of religion and social justice, if Nicki Minaj will live up to the hype, accessible healthcare, the intersection of race and class, transformative justice, my next tattoo, Detroit, intentional queer communities, wishing I still had my nintendo gameboy from my childhood because I really want to play old school tetris, if I could ever pull off red lipstick
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sitting on my porch and drinking wine with my lovely housemates. Assisting with a birth. Or at a dance party. Or finally watching that Netflix documentary that I've had for six weeks. The possibilities are endless really.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm related to Ronald Reagan.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're a feminist. And you're nice. And you care about making the world a little bit better.
You should probably have at least a little bit of queer in you.
You want to exchange mix cds.
You have salt and pepper hair.
You can kick it and want a new friend.
You're the type of person that gives up your seat on the bus to someone else.
You don't take yourself too seriously.
Or any other reason....let's be friends!

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