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31 F Brooklyn, NY

My Details

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5′ 0″ (1.52m)
Body Type
Strictly vegetarian
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Korean (Fluently), Chinese (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Who would have known that you can actually be bored in NYC? I know I am. Trying to throw myself out there for new friends and activities.

Some of the things that get me excited include: tea, afternoon tea, flea markets and thrift stores, food, crafting (making cards and beaded jewelry), musicals, dancing, happy hour, and animals.

It would be great to meet someone who can (or is willing to) enjoy these things with me.

More about me:

- I was born in Korea
- I grew up in the Philippines
- Subsequently lived in Michigan, Zambia, Malawi, Hong Kong, and mainland China
- I've traveled by myself on a bus - without air conditioning - from South Africa to Malawi, passing through Zimbabwe and Mozambique. The bus ride was about 3 days!!!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Clinical research at a hospital.

Other times You can find me trying to make people watch horror movies with me; dragging friends to ballroom/Latin dance classes; and/or pressuring a coworker for another round of happy hour specials!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- getting lost and quite enjoying it; and
- falling asleep in a subway car. I drop things while sleeping. passengers have tapped me on my shoulder in the past to wake me up, and I often have dreams too.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: My all time favorite is My Sweet Orange Tree by José Mauro de Vasconcelos. Others in no particular order the Pillars of the Earth, the Rule of Four, And the Band Played On, Harry Potter Series, Medical Detectives, ...

Movies: I don't have a favorite movie, but I liked the Red Violin, Gloomy Sunday, Amelie, Gone with the Wind, the Sound of Music, Hairspray, My Fair Lady, the Illusionist, the Pianist, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, The Fifth Element... I LOVE horror movies although there aren't many good ones, and disney movies.

Music: songs from musicals. If not, mostly very depressing music.

Food: I like spicy food although I can't eat it very well (not very Korean of me). I eat it anyway. I shall never eat papaya.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
In no particular order:

- People who care about me
- Luna, the lovely nutcase torbie
- Mental stimulation. I tend to easily get bored.
- Sleep. If you see an Asian girl sleeping on the L train, she might be me.
- Occasional spotting of cats, dogs, squirrels, pet pigs
- Music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
- all the things that I want to learn or continue learning.
- where I would be in the next few years (location and career-wise)
- my upcoming exam
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I don't have a typical Friday. I might be having dinner with a friend, unwinding over happy hour with a co-worker, or getting ready for bed early.

My UN-typical Friday would be out partying or something along that line.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Buy me a drink and I might tell you :-)
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 27–35
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
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- you are bored
- you have places you've been wanting to visit or activities you've been wanting to try but don't have anyone to join you
- you want to tell me the color of my message bar (replies often, selectively or very selectively)?

Brownie points if:
- you wear bow ties (or wouldn't object to wearing it once in a while?)
- you are a nerd and/or a geek
- English is your 2nd (or 3rd, 4th, 5th, ...) language