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59 New York, NY Man


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  • Ages 39–59
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 10:55am
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from law school
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a "passionista", someone who often loves to push the edge of the envelope, who embraces process and the journey of life...who is open to new experiences, who lives for the passion of creativity, and yet who is very traditional and grounded in many respects. I am a lifelong Manhattanite with a substantial amount of Brooklyn-envy for many years. I try to feel more than think. I am attracted to "out-of-the-box" women, who are comfortable combining sensuality with spirituality. Who are not afraid of a man who is open and spontaneous. A woman who is fearless and willing to risk to get what she wants, and dreams for. A woman who is TRULY comfortable having the types of open and honest conversations with a man as she can have with her best girlfriends. A woman who is not intimidated by being with a man who is comfortable honoring what is traditionally deemed to be his "female" side, who has a (wo)man's intuition, and who loves and respects women. A woman who totally appreciates the "journey". A woman who has dreams that rock her inside. Who wakes-up in the middle of the night and can't get them out of her head and heart. Someone who believes in serendipity and synchronicity because they manifest themselves in her life constantly... someone who believes in FAITH, BALANCE, TRUST, PASSION. Someone who understands that one's "inner-sense" is what completely creates whatever is manifesting on the outside. That context is at least as important as content, it gives content its "meaning"...A woman who loves music in all aspects of life, on the outside and in her head.

here’s to the crazy ones;
the misfits, the rebels,
the troublemakers;
the round pegs in the square holes;
the ones who see things differently,
they’re not fond of rules and
they have no respect for the status quo.
you can quote them,
disagree with them,
glorify or vilify them.
about the only thing you can’t do
is ignore them
because they change things;
they push the human race forward.
and while some may see them as crazy,
we see genius;
because the people who are crazy enough
to think that they can change the world
are the ones that do.

Steve Jobs, Inspired by the words of Jack Kerouac

"Out beyond right and wrong
there is a field.
I'll meet you there."
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am always seeking (and hopefully sometimes embracing!) balance among family (I have 2 old-soul kids [daughter - 23, son - 18] who are the source of my major blessings and wisdom), work and "life"...after years of being a primary parent with kids living with me fulltime, I am now an empty-nester, stepping into this new phase with excitement and a touch of sadness, missing him a great deal, while now having more time to help my daughter take her her music career and vision to the next level. In my professional universe, after years of being an entertainment lawyer, and feeling deeply unfulfilled on many levels, and really trying to work simultaneously on the creative side, I have now transformed that part of my life (and other pieces) to where I am now primarily immersed in all things creative, while still incorporating the left-brain essentials as well...incubating ideas - from directing short video pieces that help brands find, and express, their "why" to writing to developing and producing films, to birthing projects in television, advertising, theater, books and building "brands", particularly with ideas/ventures and people that have a women's-oriented and/or empowerment creative/professional mantra is "entertain and elevate"'s challenging AND deeply rewarding, for sure...I also get so much from being the "muse" in the lives of those who I may inspire...I have worked with Deepak Chopra on the development/production of content, it's been quite enlightening...I recently shot pieces with women who have suffered from Endometriosis, it has been deeply powerful to tell such personal stories...I just co-wrote my first screenplay with a fabulous 27-year old, brilliant writer, and it was the most wonderful creative collaboration of my career...I love people and ideas, and turning ideas into 3-dimensions...I have created "Project Curly," a multiplatform idea that has a similar heart to the Dove campaign for Real Women, focused on females who have curly hair, and how that has affected their lives (every interviewee, from 6-64 so far, has amazing stories)...I am also the force behind a female-centric/male-friendly sensuality and sexuality lifestyle brand and community that I am launching with an amazing team called "smart+dirty," that is all about embracing all sides of who we are...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Seeiing the "bigness" in people...seeing who they are way beyond what is merely on the surface and what they may have manifested...I see possibilities in all places....I believe, being a (love to cook, and cook "for")...being a friend...I can still hit a good tennis ball...creating and hosting salons, events and parties...feeling things, and people.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Connecting people...building teams of intuition...inspiring I am an "ideaman"...that I am comfy in my skin, that I dance to the tune of my own passion...that I am a sweet "bad boy"...that I use ellipses (!!)_...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I am a foodie, impossible to list my faves, either in what I love to eat or cook (two of my favorite restaurants in the Village are The Little Owl and Market Table)...Van Morrison's entire body of work, Aretha, Maia & The Pilots, Eva Cassidy, Cowboy Junkies, Ray LaMontagne, India Arie, Norah Jones, Bonnie Raitt, The Band, Ricki Lee Jones, Etta James, Patty Griffin, Dan Fogelberg, Leonard Cohen, Macy Gray, Marvin Gaye, Al Green, Sia, Nathalie Merchant/Ten Thousand Maniacs...I like fiction and non-fiction, am currently reading "The Yiddish Policemen's Union," by Michael Chabon and re-reading "The Tipping Point," by Malcolm Gladwell...I love "A New Earth," by Eckhart Tolle..."Love in the Time of Cholera" blew me away...Hemingway is one of my faves...Henry far as movies, the list is always shifting, evolving - "Once", "The Graduate", "A Walk on the Moon," Chef," "127 Hours", "The Kids Are Alright," "The King's Speech," "Shawshank Redemption," "Beginners," "The Last Waltz," "Silver Linings Playbook" to name a few...even though it's not the greatest film, "Sliding Doors" reflects an essential wonder of life, the one-degree-ness of life, every moment...the inexplicable...I LOVE film...and (telling) stories
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My kids are not "things", they head-up the list...passion...creativity...all the senses and what they writing (not religion)...the female form (inside and out)...human connection...all types of touch...intuition
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I actually spend as little time in my head thinking as possible...I operate much better when I am feeling more than thinking, and when I am in the flow of life...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I am often at the most extraordinarily spiritual, powerful services on the Upper Westside, and after that, anything goes...and is possible...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am a pretty open book....just ask....
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you get text and, more importantly, are inspired to know more...if you are willing to (at some point) share what moves you in life...if you are more "open to" (magic) rather than "looking for" (someone)...