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  • Ages 21–38
  • Near me
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Last online
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Relationship Type
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Post grad
Wants kids
Has dogs
My self-summary
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Let's do this.

Let's go on awkward first dates. Let's figure each other out. Let's get dressed up. Let's hang out. Let's brush up against each other. Let's dance, dance, dance. Let's read to one another. Let's play scrabble. Let's open up. Let's come up with cute nicknames. Let's exchange gifts. Let's be dorks. Let's hold hands. Let's go out. Let's stay in. Let's spoon. Let's say things we'll later regret. Let's cry. Let's make up. Let's kiss. Let's make each other laugh. Let's grow into each other. Let's write letters. Let's sing in harmony. Let's collaborate on art projects. Let's explore. Let's thumb wrestle. Let's accept each other's faults. Let's wish on falling stars. Let's go hiking. Let's learn new skills. Let's exchange mix CDs. Let's cross things off lists. Let's fly. Let's shake things up.

etc., etc., etc....
What I’m doing with my life
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I am a librarian. I try to be stereotypically "librarian" in all the good ways (super-powers, infinite knowledge, etc.) while suppressing the negative tendencies (shushing strangers).

I have a ukulele that I can't put down and I recently started playing euphonium in a community wind ensemble. I've been taking West Coast Swing lessons since Fall of '14.

I also run quite a bit. I just ran my third full marathon last July and have a couple more races coming up.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
finding answers and asking questions.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
One day, I was jogging by an elementary school and one of the kids shouted from a third story window, "That man gotta big head!"

*update* A kid at the library I work at recently exclaimed out of the blue, "Mr. Brian, you have a skinny neck!" So maybe I don't have a big head after all, but it just seems that way in proportion to my slim neck. Who knows?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Haruki Murakami, Dave Eggers, David Foster Wallace

Movies: Wes Anderson, Woody Allen, Quentin Tarantino, and the like.

Shows: The Colbert Report, Mad Men, The West Wing, SNL, Parks and Recreation, 30 Rock, The Office, House of Cards, Rachel Maddow, The PBS Newshour.

Music: The White Stripes, Bob Dylan, The Beatles, The Dirt Bombs, The Arcade Fire, The Black Keys, The Decemberists, Kanye West, Dale Earnhardt Jr. Jr., The National. Just discovered First Aid Kit and I'm in love.

Radio/Podcasts: This American Life, RadioLab, Judge John Hodgman, The Slate Political Gabfest.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-Running shoes
-Good books
-Bill Murray
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how to better serve my community.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm probably reading or out with a few close friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Watching The Newsroom has made me all teary eyed more than a few times. I can admit that.
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