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47 Willowdale, Ontario, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–70
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:14pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Not at all
Graduated from Ph.D program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
English, Japanese (Poorly), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
DEC 2014
I LIVE in El Paso, TX-The VERY LIBERAL part of TX. .

I am now in Toronto (DEC 2014) !!! And hopefully meeting friends for tea and canapés, high tea, veggies and dip, :P Sometimes I travel via OKC to other parts of the universe, Gallifrey, Saturn, and so on :P ...especially if I am planning to visit or just curious :).

I will be in Chicago in April 2015 for a Conference :)

I was back home in TORONTO (August 2014) to deal with my fathers' death. It's not something one speaks about on OKC but its my life. Losing both parents is never easy.

I'm more drawn to women who's profile say "discover me!" Instead of saying " Look at me!" I've found a number of people who proclaim to be liberal but don't date people of color.. You know who you are! :) I have a great BS and prejudice detector :) there are a number of women on here really full of shite... :)

I may NOT be the one for you. Im open, honest, kind and actually enjoy conversation. My state of mind is more about meeting people. I really don't have time for phony, petty, or angry. I am not your ex and as a guy I probably have some guy traits, but that don't mean Im him LOL! :D Also, I won't respond without a pics.

I do LOVE reading the responses from the 20-30 year olds to see how truly clueless and dense they are about the world :)

I am very liberal-minded. I will look at profiles a few times mainly because I sometimes need to recall info. I really don't care if you're a sports fan (As in, I hope you're well-rounded and not one dimensional). I don't want to date the female equivalent of a 40 year old teen living vicariously through a sports team :)

I'm Canadian!! Ive lived in New York City for six years :) Japan for three years, Trinidad for eight years. Originally from Caribbean. I'm West Indian but really more of a nomad not belonging to any one place. Well traveled, well educated... and funny. :)

There is a PRIZE if you make it to the end :P

CAVEAT: It has been a sad few months where I lost someone close to me but.. It would be nice to meet someone who is grounded and adventurous!!! I'm looking for conversation, integrity, laughter, and intensity-women who are not tied to conventional mores. Anything else is just too much as I try to navigate the universe once more.

Im inviting you to visit me! If HIGH DESERT is your thing, I'm close to Santa Fe, Taos, Sedona or Grand Canyon, or Vegas, oh and on the border of Mexico! if they are on your agenda, lets touch base! It would be cool to see you :)

OKC ODDITIES!! (What are the male equivalent?)
1. Why do women take pictures of their feet? :P
2. Why do women mention that their hair color is this picture is "now blonde/red/black" when its pretty obvio............
3. Does any parent not think their kid is awesome? :)
4. Why the Charlie's Angel pose?
5. Why are you hugging a tree?
6.Why does every woman seem to have a plethora of model shots? :)
7. What are you saying when you include a pic just of your pet?:)
8. How come ONLY women seem to "accidently" make a mistake when they're putting in their age? :)
9. What do women mean 'exactly' when they say they're looking for a "real man?" Is that the same as a "knight in shining armor?" the "king looking for his queen?" :P

Please, please, please:
- have a sense of humour/humor
- have a world view
- be intelligent, thoughtful, modern
- be crazy, be positive, be loved- No matter how you paint it- don't DONT DISCRIMINATE: racism is racism. Be open to the incredible variety that makes up this planet. Don't just talk the talk about social justice but understand the difference between equality and equity
- Sarcasm is disguised anger. Yes it can be funny but if youre sarcastic all the time please keep moving :)
- I spend a lot of time thinking about "white privilege"

I LOOK at many profiles regardless of age but prefers maturity and intelligence! If I was looking at your profile and gave you stars it meant I liked what you wrote or something really stood out.

Hey you made it this far! That PRIZE is just around the corner!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Im teaching at an Institution of Higher Education. Writing and Researching. Feel free to ask!!!
...and that prize is closer :)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My ability to solve crime...:P
My amazing Kermit the Frog and Super-Grover impression.
Laughter & Mischief :D
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Just because we read the same book, does not mean we are compatible :) I've read a lot and I think that is probably a better indicator, not genre or classics, or bestsellers. So there are No pretentious novels listed :D Instead just my faves:

Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy~ by Douglas Adams
1984- Orwell
Frank L Stockton- The Lady or the Tiger~ Perhaps THE greatest short story ever written followed by The Discourager of Hesitancy

In The Heat Of the Night ~Sidney Poitier movies The Usual Suspects Labyrinth, The Muppet Movie, Tampopo
This Is Spinal Tap Airplane! The Princess Bride Rocky Horror Picture Show

Music-Really likes anything and willing to listen to new bands.
Pink Floyd, Leonard Cohen, Some Canadian bands

TV- I don't have cable but I do watch a few shows-
BLACKADDER, Dexter, Father Ted and Doctor Who Buffy and Angel.

I admit... I love COMMUNITY. Brilliant writing. Quirky. Meta. And most of all NOT FORMULAIC but not for all tastes.

Lately, I have been asking friends to come over and cook together so I can learn a new dish.

That hot tea/ coffee/ fruity drink is getting closer!!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Laughter. Books. Pen/pencil/ paint brush. A song in my head :))
Coconut water. Love! Peace. Companionship
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Mistakes and making amends
Social Justice

Im very much an anarchist in my beliefs but understands the implications

Youre closer to the PRIZE
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
laughing with you
Doing crosswords with you
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have had some of the weirdest experiences in the world.

I understand hedonism and interested in people who share it and understand it :)

The PRIZE is.
Do you want the latte now? Or do you need something stronger?
Drop me a line and you can collect the latte or tea or.....

Tea. coffee. Latte, drinks? Lunch. Dinner :)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Jim Henson & Bugs Bunny are your real life heroes.

You are thoughtful, quirky and humanistic.
Intelligent, personal, passionate about a cause

If you scrolled down and didn't read some of it, the PRIZE is higher up :P

Dumb things on OL Dating
1. Oversized glasses
2. Any "Mudder" event
3. Claiming you're a "model" when your friend took the pic :P
4. and on and on :P