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5′ 11″ (1.80m)
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Graduated from Ph.D program
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English, Japanese (Poorly), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
July 2014
Back in Texas. But heading back to toronto in a few weeks.

June 2014
Returning to TORONTO due to my fathers failing health.

I LIVE in EL PASO TEXAS (Liberal Part of TX)
Im in the BORDERLAND region of Texas. Im in El Paso, TEXAS and no, it isn't like the rest of TX :) Its a nice shade of blue :). Hang on... Did I mention I'm living in El Paso, on the border with Mexico.

I'm Canadian, who lived in New York City for six years :) Japan for three years, Trinidad for eight years. Well traveled, well educated. And funny. :)

I occasionally just drop into different countries just to see the different people. I say this up front because my location may or may not say El Paso. But Im living in EL PASO, TX! Looking to learn about the place, meet some liberal, down to earth non-racist people who have lived or traveled around the globe! There is a PRIZE if you make it to the end :P

CAVEAT: It has been a sad few months where I lost someone close to me, so I'm not pursuing anything :) It would be nice to meet someone who is grounded and adventurous!!! I'm looking for conversation, integrity, laughter, and intensity-women who are not tied to conventional mores. Anything else is just too much as I try to navigate the universe once more. I also

El Paso has had its ups and downs. I have a really great job and Im very happy about that.

YES!!!! Im inviting you to visit here (if you have the adventurous spirit!). If HIGH DESERT is your thing, I'm close to Santa Fe, Taos, Sedona or Grand Canyon, or Vegas if they are on your agenda, lets touch base! It would be cool to see you :)

What's scares me on here: there are many women on here who know they're attractive but there is so LITTLE SUBSTANCE beneath the physical. There's only take with them. This has occurred more than a few times. :)

OKC ODDITIES!! :) (can you answer?)
There are all tongue in cheek!! (and what are the MALE equivalent?)

1. Does anyone had a bad side on this site?
2. Why is everyone some form of artist/writer/musician on here?
3. Why do women take pictures of their feet??? :P
4. Why do women mention that their hair color is this picture is now blonde/red/black when its pretty obvio............
5. Does any parent not think their kid is awesome? :)
6. Why the Charlie's Angel pose?
7. Why are you hugging a tree?
8.Why does every woman seem to have a plethora of model shots? :)
9. What are you saying when you include a pic just of your pet? :)
10. How come ONLY women seem to "accidently" make a mistake when they're putting in their age? :)

Please, please, please:
- have a sense of humour/humor
- have a world view
- be intelligent, thoughtful, modern
- be crazy, be positive, be loved- No matter how you paint it- don't DISCRIMINATE: racism is racism. Be open to the incredible variety that makes up this planet. Don't just talk the talk about social justice but understand the difference between equality and equity
- Sarcasm is disguised anger. Yes it can be funny but if youre sarcastic all the time please keep moving :)
- I spend a lot of time thinking about "white privilege"

I LOOK at many profiles regardless of age but prefers maturity and intelligence! There is a fake sense of people on here and I am hoping to talk to women who have depth no matter what age!! If I was looking at your profile and gave you stars it meant I liked what you wrote or something really stood out. I tend to stay away from cynics and phonies. But it can be hard to make the first introduction! So please say hello back!!!!
More interested in tea and conversation.

Hey you made it this far! That PRIZE is just around the corner!
What I’m doing with my life
Im teaching at an Institution of Higher Education. Writing and Researching. Feel free to ask!!!
...and that prize is closer :)
The first things people usually notice about me
My ability to solve crime...:P
...and my amazing Kermit the Frog and Super-Grover
]} impression.
Laughter & Michief :D
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Just because we read the same book, does not mean we are compatible :) I've read a lot and I think that is probably a better indicator, not genre or classics, or bestsellers. So there are No pretentious novels listed :D Instead just my faves:

Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy~ by Douglas Adams
1984- Orwell
Frank L Stockton- The Lady or the Tiger~ Perhaps THE greatest short story ever written followed by The Discourager of Hesitancy

In The Heat Of the Night ~Sidney Poitier movies The Usual Suspects Labyrinth, The Muppet Movie, Tampopo
This Is Spinal Tap Airplane! The Princess Bride Rocky Horror Picture Show

Music-Really likes anything and willing to listen to new bands.
Pink Floyd, Leonard Cohen, Some Canadian bands

TV- I don't have cable but I do watch a few shows-
BLACKADDER, Dexter, Father Ted and Doctor Who- from the Third Doctor- Pertwee and recently COMMUNITY and....

I admit... I love BUFFY THE VAMPIRE SLAYER. Brilliant writing.

Lately, I have been asking friends to come over and cook together so I can learn a new dish.

That latte is getting closer!!
The six things I could never do without
Laughter, books
a pen/pencil/ paint brush
a song in my head :))
Coconut water
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Mistakes and making amends
Social Justice

Im very much an anarchist in my beliefs but understands the implications

Youre closer to the PRIZE
On a typical Friday night I am
laughing with you
Doing crosswords with you
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have had some of the weirdest experiences in the world.

I understand hedonism and interested in people who share it and understand it :)

The PRIZE is.
Do you want the latte now? Or do you need something stronger?
Drop me a line and you can collect the latte or tea or.....

Tea. coffee. Latte, drinks? Lunch. Dinner :)
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–70
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
Jim Henson & Bugs Bunny are your real life heroes.

You are thoughtful, quirky and humanistic.
Intelligent, personal, passionate about a cause

If you scrolled down and didn't read some of it, the PRIZE is higher up :P