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maplenycman

46 M Stockholm, Sweden

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:21pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Other
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Libra
Education
Graduated from space camp
Job
Education
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English, Japanese (Poorly), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
CAVEAT: It has been a tough heart-wrenching few months. I am enjoying meeting people and good conversations.
It would be nice to meet someone who is grounded and adventurous!!! I'm looking for conversation, integrity, laughter, and intensity-women who are not tied to conventional mores. Anything else is just too much as I try to navigate the universe once more.

Living here in El Paso, I have been surprised by the racism and prejudice here. Not as curious anymore. I could tell you some stories. :)

APRIL2014-
I have been visiting different countries via OKC and its wonderful to see such amazing profiles! If HIGH DESERT is your thing, close to Santa Fe, Taos, Sedona or Grand Canyon is on your agenda, lets touch base! I would be cool to see you :)

OLDER PROFILE:
HOPES-Looking for intelligent, down to earth and women who are non-conformists.I'm interested in learning about places to visit, restaurants, sites and holes-in-the-wall to eat! If you know a place, then please drop me a line!

I LOOK at many profiles regardless of age but prefers maturity and intelligence! There is a fake sense of people on here and I am hoping to talk to women who have depth no matter what age!! If I was looking at your profile and gave you stars it meant I liked what you wrote or something really stood out. I tend to stay away from cynics and phonies. But it can be hard to make the first introduction! So please say hello back!!!!
More interested in tea and conversation.

I don't do PRETENTIOUS or ARROGANT or PHONY or PRIMA DONNAS :) Ive met you all. I Prefer Smart, sophisticated and thoughtful :)

TELL ME:
1. What was your all time favorite movie growing up?
2. What band/singer did you dress like when you were younger?
3. First kiss?
4. Favorite Ice Cream flavor!

Please, please, please:
1. have a sense of humour/humor
2. have a world view
3. be intelligent, thoughtful, modern
4. be crazy, be positive, be loved
5. no matter how you paint it- don't DISCRIMINATE: racism is racism. Be open to the incredible variety that makes up this planet. Don't just talk the talk about social justice but understand the difference between equality and equity
6. Sarcasm is disguised anger. Yes it can be funny but if youre sarcastic all the time please keep moving :)
7. I spend a lot of time thinking about "white privilege"

HANG OUT- My fave thing is to introduce or be introduced to great food from hole-in-the-wall restaurants. So even if u don't want to meet but read my profile and know a great hole-in-the-wall please tell me. I'm open to trying!!!

(as an aside, I am always amused that people who are so highly accomplished and educated can also be so bitter). Hoping to chat with people who only have a little bitterness....

OKC ODDITIES!! LOL (can you answer?)
---------------There are all tongue in cheek!!

1. Does anyone had a bad side on this site?
2. Why is everyone some form of artist/writer/musician on here?
3. Why do women take pictures of their feet? LOL
4. Why do women mention that their hair color is this picture is now blonde/red/black when its pretty obvio............
5. Does any parent not think their kid is awesome? :)
6. Why the Charlie's Angel pose?
7. Why are you hugging a tree?
8.Why does every woman seem to have a plethora of model shots? :)
9. What are you saying when you include a pic just of your pet? :)
(Debate)
10. How come ONLY women seem to "accidently" make a mistake when they're putting in their age? :) (what is the equivalent for the men I wonder? :P )

BACKGROUND
I am Canadian but born in the Caribbean-Sun, Beach, Mango, Coconut.

Last year I was in Toronto Canada, teaching at a University. Before that, I lived in New York City (Gramercy, East Village and Astoria, Queens)doing post-grad work, but during that time. I returned to Toronto to spend time with my mother who was terminally ill and care for father. Previous to that, I also lived and worked in Japan and would love to chat with someone who has traveled and lived overseas.

Hey you made it this far! That PRIZE is just around the corner!
What I’m doing with my life
Im teaching at an Institution of Higher Education. Writing and Researching. Feel free to ask!!!
The first things people usually notice about me
My ability to solve crime...:P
...and my amazing Kermit the Frog and Super-Grover
]} impression.
Laughter & Michief :D
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Just because we read the same book, does not mean we are compatible :) I've read a lot and I think that is probably a better indicator, not genre or classics, or bestsellers. So there are No pretentious novels listed :D Instead just my faves:

Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy~ by Douglas Adams
1984- Orwell
Frank L Stockton- The Lady or the Tiger~ Perhaps THE greatest short story ever written followed by The Discourager of Hesitancy

MOVIES I CAN WATCH OVER AGAIN-
In The Heat Of the Night ~Sidney Poitier movies The Usual Suspects Labyrinth, The Muppet Movie, Tampopo
This Is Spinal Tap Airplane! The Princess Bride Rocky Horror Picture Show

Music-Really likes anything and willing to listen to new bands.
Pink Floyd, Leonard Cohen, Some Canadian bands

TV- I don't have cable but I do watch a few shows-
BLACKADDER, Dexter, Father Ted and Doctor Who- from the Third Doctor- Pertwee and recently COMMUNITY and....

I admit... I love BUFFY THE VAMPIRE SLAYER. Brilliant writing.

Lately, I have been asking friends to come over and cook together so I can learn a new dish.

That latte is getting closer!!
The six things I could never do without
Laughter, books
a pen/pencil/ paint brush
a song in my head :))
Coconut water
love!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Karma
Mistakes and making amends
Social Justice
Equity
Race
Poverty
Hedonism
Sexuality


Im very much an anarchist in my beliefs but understands the implications
On a typical Friday night I am
laughing with you
Doing crosswords with you
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have had some of the weirdest experiences in the world.

I understand hedonism and interested in people who share it and understand it :)
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–70
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
Jim Henson & Bugs Bunny are your real life heroes.

You are thoughtful, quirky and humanistic.
Intelligent, personal, passionate about a cause

Well... do you want the latte now? Or do you need something stronger?
Drop me a line and you can collect the latte or tea or....