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47 Chicago, IL Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–70
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating

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Last online
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5′ 11″ (1.80m)
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Graduated from Ph.D program
English, Japanese (Poorly), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
MAR 2015
I only date women from the human race. If you really do look past skin color we will get on fine.

I can't tell you how disturbing it is to read many of the profiles on here. Lot's of claims of 'openness' and 'acceptance' but lots of institutional racism and prejudices bubble up in the words.

"If this is the world we live in now, Im truly sorry for us. When you can hate a person for the color of their skin, their creed, preference or beliefs, we are not where we need to be."

Anyways.... Not that reading that will change anybody's POV..

FEB 2015
I LIVE in El Paso, TEXAS-The VERY LIBERAL part of TEXAS. I sometimes visit different places via OKC :) especially if I am curious or intending to visit.

I will be visiting CHICAGO in mid-APRIL 2015 for TWO whole weeks to see family AND for a conference. I would love to hang out with someone who just wants to hang and show me a different part of Chicago!!!

2014 in Review:
I was back home in TORONTO (August 2014) to deal with my fathers' death. It's not something one speaks about on OKC but its my life. Losing both parents is never easy.

CAVEAT: It would be nice to meet someone who is grounded and adventurous!!! I'm looking for conversation, integrity, laughter, and intensity-women who are not tied to conventional mores. Anything else is just too much as I try to navigate the universe once more. Im open, honest, kind and actually enjoy conversation. My state of mind is more about meeting people. I really don't have time for phony, petty, or angry. I am not your ex and as a guy I probably have some guy traits, but that don't mean Im him LOL! :D Also, I won't respond without a pics.

I am very liberal-minded. I will look at profiles a few times mainly because I sometimes need to recall info. I really don't care if you're a sports fan- as in, I hope you're well-rounded and not one dimensional). I don't want to date the female equivalent of a 40 year old teen living vicariously through a sports team :)

I LOOK at many profiles regardless of age but prefers maturity and intelligence! If I was looking at your profile and gave you stars it meant I liked what you wrote or something really stood out.

I'm Canadian!! But I've lived in a number of exotic locales.
I lived in New York City for six years :). Japan for three years, Trinidad for eight years. Originally from Caribbean.

YES!!!! - I;m inviting you to visit me! If HIGH DESERT is your thing, I'm close to Santa Fe, Taos, Sedona or Grand Canyon, or Vegas, oh and on the border of Mexico! if these places are on your agenda, lets touch base! It would be cool to see you :)

OKC ODDITIES!! (What are the male equivalent?)
1. Why do women mention that their hair color is this picture is "now blonde/red/black" when its pretty obvio............
2. Does any parent not think their kid is awesome? :)
3. .Why does every woman seem to have a plethora of model shots? :)
4. How come ONLY women seem to "accidently" make a mistake when they're putting in their age? :)
5. What do women mean 'exactly' when they say they're looking for a "real man?" Is that the same as a "knight in shining armor?" the "king looking for his queen?" :P

I am someone who is apolitical and I am not affiliated with any party but my own :) Don't just talk the talk about social justice but understand the difference between equality and equity. I spend a lot of time thinking about "white privilege"

No matter how you paint it- don't DONT DISCRIMINATE: racism is racism. Be open to the incredible variety that makes up this planet.

Hey you made it this far! That PRIZE is just around the corner!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Im teaching at an Institution of Higher Education. Writing and Researching. Feel free to ask!!!
...and that prize is closer :)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My ability to solve crime...:P
My amazing Kermit the Frog and Super-Grover impression.
Laughter & Mischief :D
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Just because we read the same books, means nothing :) I think being knowledgeable is probably a better indicator, not genre or classics, or bestsellers. So there are No pretentious novels listed :D Instead just my faves:

Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy~ by Douglas Adams
1984- Orwell
Frank L Stockton- The Lady or the Tiger~ Perhaps THE greatest short story ever written followed by The Discourager of Hesitancy

In The Heat Of the Night ~Sidney Poitier movies The Usual Suspects Labyrinth, The Muppet Movie, Tampopo
This Is Spinal Tap Airplane! The Princess Bride Rocky Horror Picture Show

Music-Really likes anything and willing to listen to new bands.
Pink Floyd, Leonard Cohen, Some Canadian bands

TV- I don't have cable but I do watch a few shows-
BLACKADDER, Dexter, Father Ted and Doctor Who Buffy and Angel.

I admit... I love COMMUNITY. Brilliant writing. Quirky. Meta. And most of all NOT FORMULAIC but not for all tastes.
That PRIZE is getting closer!!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Laughter. Books. Pen/pencil/ paint brush. A song in my head :))
Coconut water. Love! Peace. Companionship
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Karma. Mistakes and making amends. Social Justice
Equity. Race. Poverty
Hedonism. Sexuality

Im very much an anarchist and a hedonist in my beliefs but understands the implications

Youre closer to the PRIZE
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
laughing with you
Doing crosswords with you
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have had some of the weirdest experiences in the world.

I understand hedonism and interested in people who share it and understand it :)

The PRIZE is.
Do you want the latte now? Or do you need something stronger?
Drop me a line and you can collect the latte or tea or.....

Tea. coffee. Latte, drinks? Lunch. Dinner :)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Jim Henson & Bugs Bunny are your real life heroes.

You are thoughtful, quirky and humanistic.
Intelligent, personal, passionate about a cause

If you scrolled down and didn't read some of it, the PRIZE is higher up :P

Dumb things on OL Dating
1. Oversized glasses
2. Any "Mudder" event
3. Claiming you're a "model" when your friend took the pic :P
4. and on and on :P