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38 Naperville, IL Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 35-47
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 11
Native American, White
5' 4" (1.63m)
Body Type
Catholicism and it’s important
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
Has dogs
My self-summary
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Some words of caution..I have been through an awful lot in my 38 years on this planet. I don't suffer fools well, I don't take BS from posers or douchebags. Also..I don't believe in fate..I believe in timing...relationships..are about timing.. Just because I dont have a full fuckin glamour shot up on my profile, doesnt mean I am not attractive. Words I dislike; moist, panties, yolo. I like foreign films. On a french film kick as of late. I like French Parlor Music as well, not unusual for me to listen to it while cooking. I am a lady interested in finding a fun, funny, kind, creative, smart, handsome partner. My name is Janet :).
"Those who dream by day are cognizant of many things which escape those who dream only by night. In their gray visions they obtain glimpses of eternity, and thrill, in waking, to find that they have been upon the verge of the great secret. In snatches, they learn something of the wisdom which is of good, and more of the mere knowledge which is of evil."

Edgar Allan Poe (1809 - 1849)

Have you ever felt pangs of loneliness that dug into your soul so deeply..that you couldn't speak? I feel the internet has forced us all into this pocket of surface aquaintences and passing flirtatious fads and 'pseudo' relationships..abstract, ethereal and of little or no substance. On that note.... I have a chronic..longterm..incurable health condition..recently diagnosed, still trying to learn what I can..quite scared of the future. If you are not man enough to handle it, I is a puzzle.
How many women do you know that can sing over the din of bagpipes at her own grandmother's funeral?...I can!

I dance, sing, love hiking, swimming, concerts, photography, camping,theater and dogs! I also speak German..took 8 yrs of it. Fave bands include, Tori Amos, Bjork, Flo and the Machine, Depeche Mode, New Order, Joy Division (fave fave fave!), Rolling Stones, the Cure, Faithless, Beach House, Tricky, Lisa Gerrard, Dead Can Dance, Groove Armada,M83, Yeah yeah yeahs, Bell and name a few.

Fave Actress: Cate Blanchett, Judy Dench

Actor: Clive Owen, DeNiro, Pacino, Christopher Plummer
What I’m doing with my life
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Constantly reinventing the midst of that right now...
I’m really good at
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Singing, swimming, dancing, photography, German, travel, camping, tennis, hiking.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Lips ,eyes, nose, tatas, and I have been picked up for my legs before.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Tell Tale Heart, A Christmas Carol, Pillars of The Earth, Falling Leaves, The Dovekeepers, Pride and Prejudice, biographies about Elizabeth I.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Dogs, salt water taffy, hugs, travel,
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The future with my illnesse(s)...kind of scared.
You should message me if
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You like B**BS