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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30-55
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 24
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English, French
My self-summary
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Professional, fit, fun, active, spiritual, courageous, committed guy. I work out once or twice a day 5 days a week. Loves traveling restaurants, skiing, staying in shape, exploring, break dancing, swimming in the ocean, stretching who I think I can be, weight lifting, and that's just the beginning. Recently back from two years traveling around the world and self actualizing and excited to establish some new roots (i.e., boyfriend) here.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am a doctor. A family doctor. I take care of adults, children, women, deliver babies. I have worked in academic (teaching) medicine for most of my career, working with underserved populations my whole career which I consider my life's mission. Also like working out, hiking, yoga, reading, quiet moments, practicing gratitude. Previously working as a freelancer and a Doctor Without Borders so used to moving around the world but now living back in NYC.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making you feel special. Dancing, even though I have had no formal training. Staying calm in a crisis. Pushing myself further than I thought I could go. Listening. Living and thinking outside of the box. Being an empathic and supportive partner. Finding (or creating) what I need in any situation. Being open to all the possibilities.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes (rearend a close second)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Color Purple
Sports: Running, skiing, weight lifting, soccer
Movies: Flashdance, Prime, Kissing Jessica Stein
Food: Anything mushy (Indian, Ethiopian, Nutella)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Exercise
2. My passport
3. Kissing
4. A sense of purpose
5. Books
6. Parler français
7. Laughter
8. Dancing
9. Sex
10. Trust
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I can contribute
How to be the hero of my journey
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out with a friend, home reading, on a train heading somewhere, at a yoga class
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I should have been a modern dancer but took a wrong turn and ended up in med school
You should message me if
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My philosophy on relationships: what can I give, not what can I get. The purpose of our relationship is to help each other reach our highest potentials as human beings. I am looking for someone who gets this. You can be with someone and still be silent, you are passionate about something (anything), are a little bit different from the rest, and think we'd be good together. I like all the flavors of the racial/ethnic rainbow so no issues there. The most important thing I look for is character. After the hot sex fades, this is what we will have….