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42 M New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
Today – 2:13am
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from med school
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs
English, French

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My self-summary
Funny, serious, grounded, guided, strong, decisive when I need to be, analytical at other times, insecure and confident all at once, hard working (to a fault), dedicated, calm. I have a strong sense of who I am and what I am supposed to be doing. I live in NYC and work around the world. Always love coming home to NYC. I like the extremes - NYC and open spaces in Africa. Running marathons. Delivering babies. The comfort of upstate (where I grew up) to war zones. Living with nothing and coming home to a warm shower. Love to move between different worlds, always searching for a new adventure which can be a job, a vacation, a new language, a boyfriend. Value experiences way more than things. Ultimately, looking for stability in a relationship which is as thrilling an adventure as any I have encountered.
What I’m doing with my life
I am a doctor. A family doctor. I take care of adults, children, women, deliver babies. I have worked in academic (teaching) medicine for most of my career, working with underserved populations my whole career which I consider my life's mission. Also like working out, hiking, yoga, reading, quiet moments, practicing gratitude.
I’m really good at
Making you feel special. Dancing, even though I have had no formal training. Staying calm in a crisis. Pushing myself further than I thought I could go. Listening. Living and thinking outside of the box. Being an empathic and supportive partner. Finding (or creating) what I need in any situation. Being open to all the possibilities.
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes (rearend a close second)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: The Color Purple
Sports: Running, skiing, weight lifting, soccer
Movies: Flashdance, Prime, Kissing Jessica Stein
Food: Anything mushy (Indian, Ethiopian, Nutella)
The six things I could never do without
1. Exercise
2. My passport
3. Kissing
4. A sense of purpose
5. Books
6. Parler français
7. Laughter
8. Dancing
I spend a lot of time thinking about
1. Purpose
2. Being present
3. Where is my boyfriend?
On a typical Friday night I am
out with friends, home reading, on a train heading somewhere, at a yoga class
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I should have been a modern dancer but took a wrong turn and ended up in med school
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 30–55
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You are ready for a real relationship, have your shit together, ready for the ups and downs, can be with someone and still be silent, don't smoke or do drugs, you are passionate about something (anything), are a little bit different from the rest, and think we'd be good together. I like all the flavors of the racial/ethnic rainbow so no issues there.