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thirteenbigstr

46 M Los Angeles, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:55am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on university
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English, Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
On my day's off I'm ok with just puttering around the house. I like a clean house, but hate cleaning: translation I have a housekeeper. She's great, but talks a little too much if I'm home. I'm a home owner and landlord. Never thought that would happen! I've lived a good life, it hasn't always been easy, but I'm grateful for all the experiences that I've had. The good and bad have enriched my life and made me who I am today. Which I like to think is a kind, sensitive soul who tries to be a better person each day. One of my favorite quotes is: "Vulnerability is the birth place of joy, of creativity, of belonging, and of love" I really try to practice this in my daily life and relationships. I'm certainly looking to find someone to make a life, but you can't force these things. As I've learned. Haven't we all! That being said dating and new friends are just fine too. Hopefully you find something that connects with you here and then we can let the universe work it's magic. Sound good?
What I’m doing with my life
Recently I decided to take a Music Appreciation class. I now know everything there is to know about classical music, not really, half the time my eyes were rolling to the back of my head, but the romantic era was my favorite, big surprise there! Fédéric Chopin is God! Nothing comes close to his Nocturnes. I've taken up voice lessons. Even though I can't sing to save my life! And I'm taking a song writing class and trying my hand at writing my own songs. Which has been humbling and illuminating! ....and frustrating! Number one rule don't over think it!
I’m really good at
Expressing myself
Seeing both sides of any giving situation
Being romantic
Appreciating what I have
laughing
The first things people usually notice about me
I have no idea! you'd have to ask my friends. Or better yet you tell me if we meet.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Movies: I don't really have any favorite movies. Don't get me wrong I love movies and go often. I suppose if push came to shove I loved The Squid and the Whale, And Lars and the real girl was pretty great. I remember really liking My Life as a Dog. I'm sure there are others but I'll have to think about it...

Books: Franz Kafka's the metamorphisis, Albert Camus's the stranger, Somerset Maugham's the Razor's Edge, Any and all poetry, but partial to the Romantics: Baudelaire, Rimbaud, Verlaine. Books on songwriting (I'm kind of obsessed!) Honestly though I should read more. I recently tried to read Homer's the Odyssey and Shakespeare's Hamlet, but lost steam half way through!

Music: The Replacements/Paul Westerberg, Bowie, The Fall, Buzzcocks, Iggy and the Stooges, MC5, Marc Bolan, Charles Mingus, Chopin, Neil Young, Joni Mitchell, Al Bowlly, Big Star, Fréhel, Blossom Dearie, The Swans, Bauhaus, The Beatles, Billie Holiday, New York Dolls.... I could go on and on.
The six things I could never do without
My pain in the ass cat.
Coffee, coffee, coffee!
My memory foam mattress topper from Costco. My bed is really comfortable!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I bought this beautiful Danish modern sofa. Paid $1400 for it. Gorgeous Teak wood, Sleek lines, fit's perfectly in my living room etc, etc. AND it is the most uncomfortable thing I've ever sat on (And yes I did sit on it before I bought it, but obviously not long enough!). I've been trying to sell it for a year! Want to buy a couch?
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 35–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You love your life (you don't have to love it 24/7, that would be a little weird, but generally!)
You like to laugh
You are Open
You are Honest
You are Kind
And... Passionate