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My self-summary
**For the man who understands:
I am a grammar snob. I can tell via your words how you construct thoughts, if you are who you say you are. A literary way with a sentence is seductive to me. Thus, it has been said.**

**please read Addendum as well before you write to me. I am most appreciative. Thank you.


My path has been an adventure
A way to learn about life

Now I consider this next tour
With a man i respect, little strife

He dances and laughs and listens
Our tango is never a whim

For hearing the other one's truth
Is a big plus in my book for him

I'm silly and willful and wild
Poetic, complex and sincere

He is brave and strong and gentle
Worldly, insightful and here

There is more, i am only beginning
I'm like no one you've ever met

If you'd like to begin the first inning
Your move now, my number to get


unusual, spicy, deep, difficult, dancer, friend, imaginative, soulful, thoughtful, contradictory, soft, experienced, mother, grandmother, Bronx, Brooklyn, San Francisco, salsera, wisewoman, intuitive,
flat-footed, stilettos, flip-flops, ocean, traveler, languages, greens, sexy, down-to-earth, jazz, frida, mcferrin, holistic, healer, rebel~~~~~
What I’m doing with my life
waking up.
enjoying the beauty of my 60s.
I’m really good at
thinking outside the box.
reading people.
cooking whole foods.
dancing salsa.
making things beautiful.
seeing beauty.
being real.
navigating the healthcare system.
catching babies.
looking intriguing.
The first things people usually notice about me
i don't look like anything they can pinpoint as in "what are you?"
my warmth
my breasts
my height, changing hair, my Style
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
garlic greens, good olive oil, Marlowe and Daughters, Park Slope Food Coop, Isabel Allende, My Name is Asher Lev, The Brief Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao by Junot Diaz, Les Parapluies de Cherbourg, Neruda, John Cassavetes, salsa, brazilian, Abby Lincoln, Bobby McFerrin, Jon Hendricks, Ana Carolina, Piaf, Billie, Thelonius, Joni, Seu Jorge, Cecile Mclorin Salvant, Jose James, the 60s, When Breath Becomes Air by Paul Kalanithi
The six things I could never do without
1-my kids
3-my mom
4-my friends
5-good food
6-authenticity, honesty
I spend a lot of time thinking about
-my body: its health, its strength, its pleasure, its fragility
-finding authentic love
-this next stage of life
-why do so many men announce, as if it is a commonly-held good quality, that they like "all music except Rap"?

On a typical Friday night I am
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
i am a handful. you must be evolved, brave, honest, strong, confident to enjoy the contradictions and beauty in me.
You should message me if
You are ready for a relationship, your heart is open, you know how to love, your life and experiences have taught you much yet not left you too broken, or broke, you believe in something, have a passion in life, have some financial stability, you delight in the dance of 'growing up,' you still have a rich sense of adventure, you are willing to be honest, and you live nearby, close enough so we can realistically get to know each other realtime....AND... You are prepared to actually talk, meet, not stay behind a computer screen via email and text too long. i am 'old-school' that way.


1--Please write a thoughtful paragraph of introduction like a real gentleman. No "hi pretty"--- i will erase this immediately.

2--Please note that "God-fearing," or "Republican/Conservative" or "Military man" and even Long Distance, will NOT be a match.

3--I ask that you answer at least some of the OK Cupid questionnaire. It offers something about who you are, perhaps sparking my curiosity. I call it "reciprocity…."