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49 M Piedmont, CA

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5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from masters program
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Has kids, but doesn’t want more

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My self-summary
I wrote my summary in three different ways. Have at it...

[1. Bon mot Version]

I am:
...mild-mannered with a severe wit.
...a mister, not a hipster--but might try to kiss her.
...honest, even if this sentence is a lie.

I have:
A sane mind that's crazy for living.
A resilient self that knows when to go to pieces.
A toned body that might be the key to playing your tune.

I like to:
...connect by unplugging
...dress up, when everyone is dressing down.
...strike a chord, since I can't belt a tune.
...devour books, but save an appetite for you.

I believe that:
...Swearing is bad. And just won't give a f&ck about someone who does.
Talk is cheap. Listening is priceless.
It's not about the bucket list. It's about who will grab the pail when it's time to put out the fire.

[2. Cliche rich version]

"Works hard, plays hard" "I'm new to this" "Looking for my partner in crime" "Laid back" "Loves to laugh" "Likes to travel" "Down to earth" ... Did I leave anything out? Oh yeah: "Hi".

[3. Traditional version]

I'm a fifth generation Californian, go way back--an earthquake nearly flattened this guy (true story). I do know this state quite well and its storied (ongoing) history of dreamers, rebels, and iconoclasts. And if you ever call it Cali, Frisco, or 'San Fran', my eyes are liable to roll out of my head while I herd your *ss out the door!

I might like "long walks on the beach"...if it's after doing some ocean boarding off our great coastline. If you cycle, well alright, you're getting warm. If you like to walk / hike and discover unfamiliar places--local and afar--then you could be getting 'hot', triple entendre intended.

I like to think I'm a man of some refinement, a man who'll cop the lamest excuse to dress with a little style.

I tend to be stable, a mild-mannered type, yet know when to veer off the rails a bit, and still arrive safe but charged from our little adventure. I am grateful for the good fortune, health, and experiences in my life, and the means and time to pursue my interests. Like an interesting gal...
I’m really good at
Word play -- OKC questions are fun...
Leading local urban history & geography walks. A minor passion of mine.
Putting myself together -- clothes, shoes, a suit. This I enjoy--sometimes a tad eccentric about it.
The first things people usually notice about me
Not that I really care. Well, I do know quite a bit about local history and geography. Occasionally boastful about it--allow me to explain, lol...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Paradox of Choice (...okc being exhibit A), Cool Gray City of Live, The Complete Sherlock Holmes, James Thurber: Writings & Drawings, Longitude, Flim Flam!, Freakonomics, The Tempest, Guns, Germs & Steel, The Hidden Reality, Spycraft: The Secret History of the CIA's spytech's, The Age of Wonder (good book), Devil in the White City, The Demon-Haunted World, a lot more...

Why don't we just plug our device playlists into my car stereo and get turned on by something new? Caution, any song of mine you hate will be in very high fidelity!

MOVIES: Bulworth, Wag the Dog, Woody Allen almost any release, La Dolce Vita, Bridesmaids, Back to School, Dr Strangelove, Beetlejuice, CitizenKane, Bowfinger... get the picture?

SHOWS: As in TV? Don't watch that anymore. If you do, have at it. I did watch Celebrity Rehab awhile back just for the meltdowns.
The six things I could never do without
Health, Books, Curiosity, my "Police" Car, Investments, Being alone sometimes. Two great kids, now on their own.
On a typical Friday night I am
Partying, doing serious drugs, pimping, watching trash TV, being a total ne'er-do-well...Silly snarking aside, I stay on the wholesome side of the house and uncork the little devil in me when called for.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I ran a personal ad in a newspaper 24 years ago -- limited to fewer words than this very paragraph. Now I can find out about stuff I really care about--like, you can drive a stick shift? Whoa, glad I knew that...
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 36–46
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You tend to be independent, curious, freely gives in to a guilty pleasure or two (but leave my dessert slice intact, hah!) sexy, active, passionate about some pursuit or vocation, communicative, and--would agree that happiness can come from light-hearted moments as much as any grade A bucket list 'experience'. Not looking for a 'clone' of my tastes & interests either--challenge is good.

You prefer we meet soon and engage our senses, including the common one, within reason of course. The wild inter-webs being what it is. Not into pen pals either. I mean, we haven't really "traded profiles" unless we actually go offline and meet!