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57 F New York, NY

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 53–63
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 2
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Buddhism, and somewhat serious about it
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from Ph.D program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Well some doors have closed and others have opened, so this is a year of transitions. These are the things I love: my job, family, friends, walking by the edge of the river, riding my bike, women's poker group, meditation practice, in no particular order, I have a lot to be grateful for. There is also a lifelong passion for social justice, keeping alive the idea that another world is possible.
What I’m doing with my life
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I teach English as a Second Language at a community college, back in the classroom after three years as Chair; outside of work, I love dancing, singing in the car with the windows wide open, bike riding, swimming, hiking, reading, and conversations that move seamlessly from the personal to the political, from the philosophical to the psychological.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Dancing (freestyle), kissing, listening, solving problems, finding balance, maintaining equanimity.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Hmmm, I look fit; I'm a good listener, easy to be around; I laugh easily (also cry easily although not nearly as often as I laugh).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The Brothers Karamazov, more recently Wolf Hall, A Tale for the Time Being; Children of Paradise; The Wire; Breaking Bad. music? that would run a wide gamut, from jazz, including Latin jazz, blues, bluegrass, world music, especially African/ Afrobeat, all kinds of fusion, some rock and some pop music; food also runs a wide course around the world, except I don't do meat. Radio -- NPR programs, especially This American Life and Wait, Wait Don't Tell Me. No TV, but yes to Netflix, lately I've been catching up on The Good Wife, Nikita and Foyle's War.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Literally? Water, food, sleep, clothing for winter, a roof over my head (ditto), other people.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
This next phase -- where to? when? with whom? Passion -- ready for another go round.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There's no such thing as a typical Friday night -- one Friday I had dinner with my daughter, brought a bottle of red wine to a jazzmobile concert in Jackie Robinson Park, and then went dancing at The Shrine, North Country Mississippi Blues night; last Friday was chanting and dancing at Romemu. This Friday night is open.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I was married for 25 years, ready for something new.
You should message me if
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you wake up happy to be alive