Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you are a good person. Let's get a cup of coffee.
No alcoholics, no drug addicts, no hedonists., no grammar nazis, no
libertarian Ayn Rand nuts, no flakes, no cults, no players, no
glued to the cell phone or television or internet all day. Very
dubious about musicians and people who don't want to get some
Definitely not ok with cat haters.
Most girls here complain that I either don't talk/write enough, or
too much. So let me know if you are more reasonable than that. I've
talked to enough girls here to see that most of them are focused on
trying to find something wrong (grammar, just saying hi in first
message, unclear photo, disagreement on some random topic, not
enough of a profile) and rejecting a guy. Whatever, I'm not speed
dating. I'm sure you have lots of suitors, but you'll never find
the right guy with that kind of superficial vetting. I'm looking
for someone with more depth, who is willing to try and get to know
people, and at least make some kind of genuine friendship despite
imperfections. Have had at least a dozen ask me, "If you want
friends why are you on a dating site?" Um, cuz you should be
friends with someone before you date them? Honestly, I don't know
if it's this site, or our culture, but something is f'd up here.
Half of you want the guy to fall head over heels in love without
ever meeting you, and the other half just want random sex. Where
are the classy normal ladies who want to get some wine and talk
about how pathetic modern art is when compared to classical style,
or go to six flags not as a date but just because rollercoasters
are fun? Yes, I can write long paragraphs, but some of you seem to
hate that, and the other half hate the half sentence replies. I
don't really do in between. Sorry if I seem annoyed, but there is a
reason most of you are single, and let me be blunt: you aren't
friendly! I've started pretty much just saying hi to most of you,
because so many of you expect something more than just hi. Wow,
dude, someone said hi. Chill, say hi back. Trust me, no decent guy
wants to date some girl who ignores everyone who says hi. I'll say
something witty and funny when you convince me you aren't a spam
bot from Russia trying to get me to sign up for a webcam site.
I like kind, attractive, witty, passionate, intelligent, liberal