I'm not looking for flings. I'm seeking a sincere loving relationship. I want a true partner, a lover who is classy and educated. I need a smart strong woman, who has good morals. I am looking for an assertive woman, who speaks her mind.
I can accept flaws if you are willing to try and improve yourself. If you are having a problem, just talk to me about it. I am very understanding! The only thing I have a real issue with is a lack of communication. If you don't talk, I don't know what's going on!
For me, love is simple: getting breakfast, sitting in traffic and chatting, watching a movie late at night, or taking care of a pet together. I want to bypass all the dating drama, and find someone who knows what is important (hint: its not Facebook or text messaging). I'm not jealous, but focus on what you have, or else you'll lose me.
Love is not magic! It is hard work and takes commitment and dedication. We have to work together as a team, with mutual respect and reciprocation. If you want to be with me, you have to make this a priority. I don't want to be left in limbo, waiting for you to decide if you are ready for a real relationship. We deserve to take each other seriously.
We will have fights, and that's ok. I want someone mature enough to talk things through, who won't just run away at the first hint of trouble. I need someone who will tell me when something is wrong, and then give me a chance to fix it. I need someone who will admit their mistakes, and let me help them.
I am very forgiving, and you should be too. I'm not looking for a fairy tale mermaid, I'm seeking something real. We all fuck up and make mistakes. Successful relationships aren't based on perfection, but upon how you deal with difficulty. An honest sincere heartfelt apology goes a very long way with me. When I am wrong, I will come to you humbled and contrite.
I am very loyal, and I want someone that appreciates this. If I kiss you, it means that I don't want anyone else. I expect the same from you. I'm not "playing the field" or dating multiple people. I'm genuinely monogamous and sincere. If I say I like you, I mean it, and I hope you will appreciate my clarity. I am not fickle, and you shouldn't be either.
When I have feelings for a girl, she is #1, and our relationship is the most important thing in my life. I will be patient and loving and kind. If you get sick, I will go bankrupt to get you help. When I'm wrong, I will change for you. I will think of you a lot, and want to do what you ask of me.
If we break up, ok, whateverz. I have no problem remaining friends with my exes, so long as they continue to treat our relationship with respect. My love won't end, just because we decide we shouldn't be together. I care about people forever, and I always want the best for them. I still care about and help people who have treated me very badly.
Communication is really important to me. I've been known to text and write too much, because I want to stay in touch. I write professionally, and I will write you love letters and poems. I can go on and on, and when I care about someone, I want to tell them how I feel.
If you need to be alone, I am ok with that. Just say something! If you are busy, tell me what's going on! If you need me to be quiet, I will do as you ask! Otherwise, I will really make an effort to talk, and I will feel sad if you don't respond. Speak up and I will listen. Ignore me and I will wonder why.
I prefer to talk in person, not electronically. Psychological studies have confirmed that text messaging DESTROYS relationships. The internet is NOT real. I am not dating my cell phone. I don't need to see you everyday, but I'd like to know what's going on, and when I can expect to hear from you. Call me!
I will want to come see you! Even if you are busy, surely you can spare a minute or two for someone that you care about. I think it would be really nice to drive across town to just say hi.