I'm mixed race, laid back, confident, affectionate, extremely loving, independent, humble, witty, educated, love wearing her pjs or nothing at all, sometimes streets smart, full of bad-assery, goofy, nerdy, sweet, edgy, a bit of a wild child and free spirited, romantic, sometimes co dependent on masculine energy and always dependent on this crazy thing called love. I don't have everything figured out and don't expect you to either. Besides half the fun is to figure it out together. Love to have fun, goof around and make silly impressions to get you to laugh. Or at least laugh at me.
I love the outdoors, the wild, the country and the exotic. Nature inspires me and I live in constant awe from it all.
I believe in animals having a spirit and cry if I accidentally kill one; ie. I cried when my ex had to trap a mouse that kept waking us up at night. It was traumatizing! Or when my dog kills lizards. Poor things. Except for roaches, mosquitoes, flies, large spiders, snakes and alligators. I could live without their species around...
I love to go out for a night of fine dining or a beer at a dive bar. And I'm just as comfortable going on night drives to the desert with nothing but the road and music to fall all over in love with life. How about a picnic, or a motorcycle ride to wear down our leather boots and jackets.
...Im basically looking for my male version. I'm quite a catch...and so I've been told.
Sometimes I'm old fashioned, and other times I'm a modernized woman. I have found that in life, it is a balancing act of two extremes. I like oscillating between the two.
For example, I was raised to expect from a man the following: open doors, help with house things, always court a lady, picks up the check every time and can relish in my silly attempts at buying us a coffee or dessert. My mother taught me that a real man truly appreciates a woman and loves her unconditionally. Never settle for anything less. Of course this is completely reciprocated and trust me when I say, I do! I believe that in a relationship both should share responsibilities, compromise and keep things alive. Just because I think your pot belly is cute, it doesn't mean I want you to stop taking care of yourself.
I'm looking for my partner in crime, my mr. Equal and my nerdy quirky rock star in the sack. Not referencing nerdy dirty talk during sex, although...
But seriously, no judgements from this one. I'm open about everything in my life and expect the same. Or at least a man that can let his walls down in time and share his inner amazingness with me. I'm not your teacher, nor mom. Not going to teach you about how great it is to love and open to someone completely, nor am I going to clean up after you. If and when I do things for you, it's because I care about you. Do not take that for granted. You should expect the same in return.
I like to stay in shape and eat healthy most of the time, minus the weekends where i get a free pass.
Without sounding selfish, vain or LA, these are my requirements:
-no drugs (I'm not a groupie)
-no smokers (yuck)
-no children in tow (Been there done that. Didn't work out)
-no over weight-ers, over/under age-rs, under height-ers or any other over or under what my profile mentions.
-no students (I'm looking for a real connection with a fellow working professional. Not looking for frat broes)
Side note, if your first impulse is to write a first line with 'hey beautiful, babe, gorgeous or hot stuff' move along.
That's gotta be my absolute top pet peeve on this dating site!
Congratulations on getting this far!