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34 Astoria, NY Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 33–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Apr 12
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body type
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Politics / Government
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am originally from the Midwest. So I have manners, a fondness for cheese, and an unnatural resistance to feeling cold.

I am sarcastic but kind and would like to find a man who can be both as well. I'd rather make fun of myself than others and I do my best to not take myself too seriously. I choose happiness every day and it's important that you do too.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working in youth development. I help the kids get their lives together and I love it.

I volunteer through NY Cares. I'm currently the leader for a park revitalization project. So if you're sitting on a clean bench in Astoria Park - you're welcome;)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking, building ikea furniture, making and nearly completing to-do lists, charming parents, enthusiastically dancing around my apartment to cheesy pop music while cleaning, ribbing you during the game (or keeping my mouth shut if you're super sensitive about your team - I get it).

Problem solving is my jam.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I would normally say my eyes, but I recently became a redhead. It draws more attention than I expected. But if we're all gonna be 100% honest it is probably my boobs - right guys?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: To Kill A Mockingbird, Charlotte's Web. Does no one else on this site read for entertainment? I read mysteries and trashy romance novels. If you like reading for literatures sake - that is awesome. I wish I was more like you.

Movies: Good Will Hunting, Juno, My Cousin Vinny. I'll watch anything except horror and Jim Carrey*.

*just watched Eternal Sunshine for the first time, so the no Jim Carrey rule is out. I'm still thinking about the movie and I think I need to re-watch it (something I almost never do) in a few months.

TV: I don't want to spend my life in front of a television, so I try not to get committed to any show. I have favorites and they are girly. It's cool - I'll watch them online when you're not around:)

Music: Anything with a great melody or beat.

Food: I can find something I'll like on any menu. Not wild about super-spicy stuff, but I love to try new foods and experiment with flavor profiles.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Air conditioning - I hate to be hot unless I'm working out.
Time to myself - for sanity.
My girlfriends - for the truth.
Pedicures - ugly feet are gross.
Unlikely animal friends videos - because awwwwwwww.
A goal - to keep me moving.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Current events (I like to stay informed about what is going on in the world)
Finding a guy who makes me laugh and wants to run his fingers through my hair.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
How about what I'd like to be doing? I'd like to be checking out a new restaurant and/or bar, going to the theater, riding the cyclone at Coney Island, taking a cooking class, playing air hockey (fantastic hand-eye coordination), walking the Highline, learning how to rock climb. Let's do lots of fun stuff together!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'll tell you more than I probably should.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are fun, and emotionally available.
You don't take yourself too seriously.
You care about your health more than your appearance.
You ALWAYS let people exit the train before you enter.