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compassionate, introspective, and groovy :)

My self-summary Propose an edit

I'm a single (widowed) mom of the two greatest teenage boys. I'm self-employed; work from home, and consider my friends my family. A few things I am passionate about are my sons, God, my friends, music, and intellectual conversation. I try not to take life too seriously; I don't always succeed, but am working on that. I enjoy spending time with friends either grilling, going out for drinks on occasion, or just "hanging out" and visiting. I've been accused of being kind to a fault, but don't mistake my kindness for weakness. I've also been through a few life-altering events, but don't confuse my experience for baggage. You live, learn, and keep getting better. I love to laugh (I have a very sarcastic sense of humor at times), but definitely have my priorities in order and always handle my responsibilities. I am basically on this site because these tests are so addictive, but I'm open to meeting new friends. I'm also very fascinated with Myers-Briggs typology. I'm INFJ. If you're familiar with MBTI, then you have a better idea of who I am. If you're not sure what that means, just ask me. :)

What I'm doing with my life Propose an edit

Getting older -- getting better. I recently returned to school after a 17-year hiatus majoring in Sociology and Psychology -- the way people act and think intrigues me. I decided that since I've spent most of my life either doing personal research on human behavior or counseling friends (and strangers in grocery store lines,) I might as well make a career of it. I've been self-employed for five years now, and while I love the location (I work at home); it's time to move forward. I'm also a referee, chauffeur, personal chef, medic, maid, and counselor to my amazing sons. They have definitely taught me the true meaning of frustration, but more importantly, how it feels to love and be loved with your entire heart and soul.

I'm really good at Propose an edit

I'll tell you what I'm NOT good at: Filling out these questionnaires. Next question? heh However, I am good at few things: Listening without judging, understanding, and making people feel at ease. I'm also a very good typist -- I do transcription work for a living, so I have to be, lol.

The first thing(s) people usually notice about me Propose an edit

My height, or lack thereof. I'm 5'0." After that, superficially, it's my eyes or my smile. Go a little deeper, and it's my compassion, my loyalty, and the fact that I will draw in a silver lining if there isn't one.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food Propose an edit

There are just too many to mention here -- I really just love any good book, song, or movie that evokes an emotion. I watch movies more than I read, and listen to music more than I watch movies...so...well, you get the idea.

My favorite foods are Mexican, STEAK, bacon (LOVE bacon, lol), Cajun, a decent salad, po-boys, anything my son cooks (he's an accomplished chef already), and really-bad-for you finger foods -- like appetizers in those cookie-cutter restaurants like Chili's or TGIFridays. I also enjoy trying new ethnic dishes.

The six things I could never do without Propose an edit

My sons, God, My friends, Music/poetry, The Internet, Intelligent conversation/laughter

I spend a lot of time thinking about Propose an edit

Thinking. Oh, wait...lol. It's a vicious cycle.

On a typical Friday night I am Propose an edit

Hmmm. Probably either online, spending time with friends, enjoying some "me" time, or trying to convince my sons that they're not too cool to hang out with mom :)

The most private thing I'm willing to admit here Propose an edit

I'm a very private person. heh heh

You should message me if Propose an edit

You are a positive person who knows who they are -- or is at least trying to find out. I'm looking for friends who will complement my life, not complicate it.

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marielc: 1131 questions

Ethnicity
Native American, White
Height
5' 0" (1.52m).
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Sagittarius and it's fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Law / Legal Services
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Has children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English, French (Poorly), *Sign Language (Okay)

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