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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 30-55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Sep 16
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5' 4" (1.63m)
Body Type
Special Diet
Working on Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
English (Fluently), German (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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The thing I value most in life and in other people is honesty. I won't do without it. Does that sound too German? Well, forgive me, I am German. Living in New York now for almost a decade and LOVING it. I'm a nomad by heart, though, so traveling is an essential part of my life. Road trips in this country rock! Hiking, too.
I have lived in various places on this planet and hope to continue this exploration. I feel you haven't really experienced a place until you paid your first utility bill there (ever tried to decipher an electricity invoice in Hebrew?).
I live in a beautiful communal house with four like-minded people in Brooklyn. This has been a wonderful adventure, with its usual ups and downs, but has become the way I would like to live life and create family.
I am a very independent person and need friends, lovers, partners accept that part of me. At the same time, I am open-hearted and absolutely accountable -- if I say I'll call you I will do so. You can trust that I will be honest about my feelings and say what I think. And if I've taken you to my heart you will have a hard time getting out of there again...
What I’m doing with my life
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Trying to finish that thesis! Working in higher ed. Building community with the people I love. Organizing for my union. Living on two continents. Taking pictures -- sometimes for the things listed above...
I’m really good at
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listening. observing. getting into heated political discussions. baking. learning new things, exploring new places
The first things people usually notice about me
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my accent. the camera. straightforwardness. curiosity
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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music: Decemberists, Cat Power, Johnny Cash, Tindersticks, Pavlov's Dog, Velvet Underground, Chumbawamba, Eels, The Be Good Tanyas, Belle & Sebastian, The Moldy Peaches, The Go-Betweens, Mazzy Star, Neutral Milk Hotel, Regina Spektor, Element of Crime, Arvo Pärt, Gideon Klein ... the list goes on

books: anything by TC Boyle or Juli Zeh; Uwe Timm, Arundhati Roy, Anais Nin, Lawrence Durrell, Howard Zinn ... items on this list change frequently. I love reading.

food: Great vegetarian food! Including seafood. Thai, Vietnamese, sushi, Mexican, Middle Eastern food.
No sauerkraut, please. I *love* American diners.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My camera. Best friends. Great books. Chocolate (good chocolate, that is!). Honesty. Passion.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
lots of things. I do spend a lot of time thinking.
You should message me if
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you want to be in an open relationship / lovership, and have experience doing so. Also, if you can send more than a one-liner to introduce yourself. Oh, and if you like to cook!