The thing I value most in life and in other people is honesty. I
won't do without it. Does that sound too German? Well, forgive me,
I am German. Living in New York now for almost a decade and LOVING
it. I'm a nomad by heart, though, so traveling is an essential part
of my life. Road trips in this country rock! Hiking, too.
I have lived in various places on this planet and hope to continue
this exploration. I feel you haven't really experienced a place
until you paid your first utility bill there (ever tried to
decipher an electricity invoice in Hebrew?).
I live in a beautiful communal house with four like-minded people
in Brooklyn. This has been a wonderful adventure, with its usual
ups and downs, but has become the way I would like to live life and
I am a very independent person and need friends, lovers, partners
accept that part of me. At the same time, I am open-hearted and
absolutely accountable -- if I say I'll call you I will do so. You
can trust that I will be honest about my feelings and say what I
think. And if I've taken you to my heart you will have a hard time
getting out of there again...
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to finish that thesis! Working in higher ed. Building
community with the people I love. Organizing for my union. Living
on two continents. Taking pictures -- sometimes for the things
I’m really good at
listening. observing. getting into heated political discussions.
baking. learning new things, exploring new places
The first things people usually notice about me
my accent. the camera. straightforwardness. curiosity
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
music: Decemberists, Cat Power, Johnny Cash, Tindersticks, Pavlov's
Dog, Velvet Underground, Chumbawamba, Eels, The Be Good Tanyas,
Belle & Sebastian, The Moldy Peaches, The Go-Betweens, Mazzy
Star, Neutral Milk Hotel, Regina Spektor, Element of Crime, Arvo
Pärt, Gideon Klein ... the list goes on
books: anything by TC Boyle or Juli Zeh; Uwe Timm, Arundhati Roy,
Anais Nin, Lawrence Durrell, Howard Zinn ... items on this list
change frequently. I love reading.
food: Great vegetarian food! Including seafood. Thai, Vietnamese,
sushi, Mexican, Middle Eastern food.
No sauerkraut, please. I *love* American diners.
The six things I could never do without
My camera. Best friends. Great books. Chocolate (good chocolate,
that is!). Honesty. Passion.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
lots of things. I do spend a lot of time thinking.
You should message me if
you want to be in an open relationship / lovership, and have
experience doing so. Also, if you can send more than a one-liner to
introduce yourself. Oh, and if you like to cook!