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marilyn14

42 F Oakland, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:01pm
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Mostly other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Buddhism
Sign
Capricorn
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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I am an energetic, upbeat person striving to live a balanced life. Creativity and connection are driving forces for me. I have been told that I have a dry sense of humor. I enjoy being playful and the company of those that are lighthearted. Moving to Beijing in the next few months for work.
What I’m doing with my life
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Developing creative communities, doing a lot of tango and salsa dancing, and being surprised at the amount of growth that is showing up for me at this point in life. I work in education and am passionate about what I do.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Belly laughing, talking, hugging, making connections and seeing patterns
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes and my hair
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The World According to Garp by John Irving is my favorite book ever followed by The Razor's Edge by Somerset Maugham. Margaret Atwood, Patricia Briggs and Chogum Trungpa Rinpoche are a few of the people sitting on my bookshelf.

Movies: Cloud Atlas, No Country for Old Men, the Men in Black Series, Moulin Rouge, The Fountain

Shows: True Blood, Being Human, Downton Abbey, Hart of Dixie, Girls, Falling Skies

Music: Ella Fitzgerald, Janelle Monae, Suzanne Vega, Joni Mitchell, Tanghetto

Fav Food: Cajun (grew up in Louisiana), Korean (a recent discovery), Indian (a long-time love)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
movement, rice products, my laptop, my friends, meditation and regular exercise
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Identity politics and educational equity, how much joy I feel when I am dancing, breathing and showing up in the present, keeping balance in my life, how to be a better listener ...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
dancing, out with friends or going to bed early
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have accidentally gone swimming with an alligator.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 31–51
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, short-term dating
You should message me if
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You like to partner dance (East coast swing, tango, two-stepping or salsa). You can do nothing for a day and feel good about it but are also a mover and a shaker that makes interesting things happen in the world. You are smartsy, artsy, witty, have integrity and like to be active.