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mark1000

45 / M / straight / Single

San Francisco, California

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 9" (1.75m).
Body Type
Overweight
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Casual sex
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Virgo but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
$100,000–$150,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am intellectual, honest, and considerate.

My Self-Summary

I'm curious about human nature on all kinds of levels: social, economic, spiritual, sexual, group orientation, whatever. I admire simplicity, but am attracted to complexity. I admire competence and completion, but wander from project to project. I love the small of a woman's back, the sides of her neck, and kissing pretty much everywhere. I have sure, gentle hands and give good back, neck, and foot rubs. I like going new places, especially high places with lots of sun and wind. I prefer relaxed restaurants with really good food over highly decorated restaurants with indifferent food. I like openness to ideas and activities. I believe in honesty, trust, and support. I like experimenting, be it in food, sex, movies, or destinations.

What I’m doing with my life

Cleaning house, literally. I have too much stuff. I have stuff I never use, and it's weighing me down mentally, so I'm gradually moving it out. Otherwise, I'm connecting with old friends and making new ones, taking and planning some trips, eating out a lot, and generally finding new and better ways to live life.

I’m really good at

Writing, explaining things (if I know about them), backrubs, listening, reading, kissing, watching movies (not much skill involved there, I admit).

The first things people usually notice about me

Dunno. That I wear glasses?

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: Letters to a Young Poet, Harry Potter, popular history books Movies: In the Heat of the Night, My Favourite Year Music: bluesy rock and roll (Led Zeppelin, Rolling Stones), Guided By Voices, Fleetwood Mac, Sisters of Mercy, Green Day, Blink 182, Garbage, Bob Dylan, The Band, Bob Segar, U2, random stuff by newer bands that I don't know the names of, Miles Davis on Prestige, dance music I can't identify, The Who Foods: Chicken enchiladas

The six things I could never do without

sleeping in, staying up late, time to let my brain goof off, books, friends

I spend a lot of time thinking about

How people with opposite points of view might be able to find something in common, and communicate.

On a typical Friday night I am

I like to relax at home on Friday nights, but I'm normally out having dinner with friends.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I'm not a virgin.

You should message me if

you like good writing, you think laps make the best pillows, you like stopping for a cup of coffee while exploring a city, you like cities and the wilderness