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43 M Brooklyn, NY

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6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
I'm an Englishman in New York (yeah yeah, I know, there are lots of us here). Born in Kenya, grew up in London, lived for a few years in South America, owned a little cinema in Spain. Drifted through the South Pacific and came ashore here about 5 years ago (no kidding - I arrived on a boat).

I'm passionate, tactile, an incurable romantic. A boxer and a dancer - when the music's right. I still believe in chivalry, but I don't take myself too seriously. I'll keep you on your toes... hopefully you'll do the same. I have a trick or two up my sleeve (the sleeve I wear my heart on) and I can make you turn your hands over without touching you.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a designer, director and photographer.
I’m really good at
Making a mean Old-Fashioned, making you look good in a photo, putting up shelves, giving massages, looking out for those I care about, finding my way home after a long long night...
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile maybe. Oh and probably my accent. Actually, seeing as I've never once asked anyone this question I really have no idea...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Not going overboard here...
Books: Carver, Chandler, Ballard, Fitzgerald, David Mitchell. I'm old-school - I like to see books on shelves so no kindle for me.
Movies: Swingers, Do the Right Thing, Manhattan, Talk to Her, In the Mood for Love.
Music: The Specials, Massive Attack, Tom Waits, Terry Callier, Olafur Arnalds, Cocteau Twins, and Prince, of course.
I don't watch much TV but I love Breaking Bad and Mad Men (partly because I worked on the show).
I eat pretty much anything, but Spanish and Lebanese are top of my list. Still looking for a truly great Indian restaurant in the city.
The six things I could never do without
whisky, warmth, hot dogs (everyone needs a vice), books, trees, love.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
my family and friends, scattered around the world, and what they're doing right now.
On a typical Friday night I am
escaping the city. Actually I rarely do that, but I'd like to...
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you like the sound of me