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43 Brooklyn, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 30–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 2:39am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I'm an Englishman in New York (yeah yeah, I know, there are lots of us here). Born in Kenya, grew up in London, lived for a few years in South America, owned a little cinema in Spain. Drifted through the South Pacific and came ashore here about 7 years ago (no kidding - I arrived on a boat). I'm proud to call NYC my home.

I'm passionate, tactile, an incurable romantic. A boxer and a dancer - when the music's right. I still believe in chivalry, but I don't take myself too seriously. I'll keep you on your toes... hopefully you'll do the same. I have a trick or two up my sleeve (the sleeve I wear my heart on) and I can make you turn your hands over without touching you.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a designer, director and photographer.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making a mean Old-Fashioned, making you look good in a photo, putting up shelves, giving massages, looking out for those I care about, finding my way home after a long long night...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile maybe. Oh and probably my accent. Actually, seeing as I've never once asked anyone this question I really have no idea...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Not going overboard here...
Books: Carver, Chandler, Ballard, Fitzgerald, David Mitchell. I'm old-school - I like to see books on shelves so no kindle for me.
Movies: Swingers, Do the Right Thing, Manhattan, Talk to Her, In the Mood for Love.
Music: The Specials, Massive Attack, Tom Waits, Terry Callier, Olafur Arnalds, Cocteau Twins, and Prince, of course.
I don't watch much TV but I love Breaking Bad and Mad Men (partly because I worked on the show).
I eat pretty much anything, but Spanish and Lebanese are top of my list. Still looking for a truly great Indian restaurant in the city.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
whisky, warmth, hot dogs (everyone needs a vice), books, trees, love.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
my family and friends, scattered around the world, and what they're doing right now.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
escaping the city. Actually I rarely do that, but I'd like to...
You should message me if
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you like the sound of me