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54 Burlingame, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 32–53
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Feb 19
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body type
Strictly anything
Buddhism, and somewhat serious about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from Ph.D program
Science / Engineering
Open relationship
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), German (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
First and foremost, you should know that after being in long-term relationships all of my life I am now in an exploratory place. I am looking for women who want to have fun and explore new experiences and passions.

I am in a long-term relationship with a lovely bisexual woman. We are looking for a woman or a couple to play with. Hopefully to grow with.

We want to make connections with strong, smart, sensual women who are exploring their sexuality. We want hot, connected, adventure...with turned-on women. If that sounds like you, please let me know.

I'm in my early fifties, amazingly enough. My partner is in her forties. We both feel and act like we're in our thirties. I'm a professional geologist. I love my work protecting the coast. I volunteer with wildlife rescue, and have always had a passion for nature and the outdoors. I spend most of my spare time hiking, climbing, kayaking, and just being outdoors. I also love art and museums, and love my photography (see some of my work at

I enjoy fun with new people in a safe, respectful envelope. I love discovering what makes you tick.

That's me. What I really love is getting to know the depths of a new partner! Tell me about YOU!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am a hedonist...

First, that means working to make the world a better place so that all of us can just concentrate on pleasure, while respecting and preserving nature and each other. I've dedicated my career to this; to research into how the Earth works, to teaching, and to preserving the California coast.

Second, I am devoted to living this brief time we have on this conscious plane to the fullest. I won't hold back. I'm lookng for women to enjoy all of the sensual joys life has to offer!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Owning my feelings and being authentic in my life.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I am a compassionate, caring person
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love such an eclectic variety that it's hard for me to narrow it down. I am an avid--almost obsessive--reader, and have been all my life. I read EVERYTHING, from metaphysics to murder mysteries. I also love movies, especially cuddling on the sofa at home. Not so much into TV, except on my terms (streaming without commercials, DVD, etc.), I love a variety of music from classical to jazz to classic rock. I'm an epicurian slut--I love to try new cuisines. I love performance art: dance, plays, Shakespeare. I love the visual arts as well, both creating and appreciating. Really, I enjoy pretty much everything... I just love EXPERIENCE!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love, sex, friends, nature, a sense of purpose, curiosity, and wonder, connection, animals (wildlife and pets), knowing I'm making the world a better place...I guess I went over the limit, but I've never been one to follow the rules...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My place in the universe and society. Sounds heavy, but not really...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Participating in classes or workshops, spending time with friends (I put on a Limbic Meditation circle regularly), preparing for a hiking/climbing trip over the weekend, or alone at home with a book or movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have an Orgasmic Meditation practice. If you are curious what that is, ask me!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are a curious, intelligent, sensuous, and strong woman who wants to explore the bay area and ourselves and is secure enough that you will not be threatened by the other women in my life.

I hate to have to add this, but after 3 weeks on OKC I have had some frustrations. I have tried to be as open and honest as I can on this profile. Please let's not waste our time...this is who I am. I've tried to make clear what I am looking for. If this works for you, let's talk. If it seems 50% to you, it's not gunna work. 90% we can work with.

Take some time with my profile. I did.