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30 M New York, NY

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6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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It's unlikely that anyone ever sees me and says, "Now THAT is one DANGEROUS stud." Still, I just might surprise you with a few instances of raw, hot, rugged dissent.

My mind bounds over obstacles into the night.
I used to think wrinkles would come before delusion. They didn't. Delusion came first.

Hugs are cool.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Teaching the neediest children.

Other things:
Having a goddamn conversation with you.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Opening windows.
Understanding what you're getting at.
Saying nice things and meaning them.
Saying things that I want you to remember, then later realizing I only said them inside my head so you never even heard them (!).

Let's play Bananagrams!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Subway weirdos can't get enough of these eyelashes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Just Kids, e e cummings, S.J. Perelman, Alice Munro, Donna Tartt, Nikolai Gogol, Milan Kundera, Franz Kafka, Woody Allen (films, short stories, and plays), Philip Roth, Catch 22, Robinson Crusoe, Bob Dylan, The National, The Tallest Man on Earth, 60's r&b, 50's syrupy pop music, Cole Porter, vegetables and noodles.

Classical music does it for me, especially in the morning. Don't worry, I like FIDLAR, too.

I read ALL THE TIME. I like the kind of stories with people talking to each other, then in the end they realize they've said too much. Invite me to your book club!

Let's talk about movies. But give me some time to process them, because man do they make an impression.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
N.B. The mating season hormones have kicked in, so I apologize in advance if my eyes fall out of their sockets when I notice your cleavage.

Someday I'll get to the point where I can read an entire book and not think "Clearly, a cookie would be delicious right now," between every sentence.

Likewise, I doubt I'd excel at one of those programs where you become a millionaire by simply not buying coffee every day. Couldn't do it.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to express things that seem inexpressible.
Gender and sexuality.
"Why am I attracted to this person? Wait, why am I questioning it?"
How to be a better ally in the many struggles for social justice.

The saddest rock n roll lyrics ever penned are "summer's almost gone."
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
This summer, I'll be camping in the Northeast. Want to be my camping partner? I'll drive. Of course, camping is not a first date. We'll have to get to know each other over tables full of beers, well in advance.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Probably the funniest thing I've read in this section of any of your profiles is one word from one woman: "bush."
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 21–41
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
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If you just want to tl;dr all the things in this section and get straight to the making out, I may very well be open to that. (See "summer hormones," above.)

You think we could be pals. I'm looking for pals. All kinds of pals! Laugh pals. Kiss pals. Pool pals. Think pals. Talk pals. Fight pals. Pizza pals. Movie pals. Reading pals. If you are a pal who can fulfill more than one pal requirement, you will get my heart palpitating.

Message me if you want to tattoo me.

Ethically non-monogamous.
I've never had the same relationship with two different people, and I really like that about people. Let's make a connection, you and me.

Body positive and sex positive. "Bisexual" is imprecise, but I'm an imprecise fellow. Take a chance.