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31 New Haven, CT Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 22-45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Nov 21
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Working on Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a doctoral student in a social science program. I spend a lot of time playing with numbers, reading, and writing. I also eat food, play a couple sports, sleep, drink coffee, lay on my couch, and stare at the television -- usually not concurrently.

I'm quite married. But my wife (lizzle84) and I both find time to date. So, I'm not your future husband. But I might be able to brighten your day.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
the three Rs
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm good at telling stories about data. I'm also good at wrestling, Brazilian Jiu-jitsu, and squash.

Sometimes, I'm good at lecturing. Other times I'm not. I am very bad at predicting when I will be good, and when I will not be. I am not much better at postdicting.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I assume it depends on the lighting and proximity. I'm handsome. And I smile a lot.

I have weird ears from wrestling. And I have a few small scars on my face from boxing. I doubt people notice either. But I feel the need to mention both, so you know how manly I am.

Really, I have no idea. I'm pretty normal looking.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I read embarrassingly little fiction.
I used to love movies. But I don't watch many anymore.
I watch most of the trendy TV shows from time to time.
I listen to music and eat food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how people think.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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This entire profile is moderately private. My grandmother would kill me if she found it.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're pretty and smart?

Witty banter and a distaste for monogamy will pique my interest.