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30 • New Haven, CT • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 22–45
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Apr 23
- 5′ 10″ (1.78m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Working on Ph.D program
- Open relationship
- Mostly non-monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids
- Has dogs
- English (Fluently)
I'm quite married. But my wife (lizzle84) and I both find time to date. So, I'm not your future husband. But I might be able to brighten your day.
Note: most of my pictures include a dog. That is not because I particularly want to show you my dog. It is because my wife likes to photograph the dog.
Sometimes, I'm good at lecturing. Other times I'm not. I am very bad at predicting when I will be good, and when I will not be. I am not much better at postdicting.
I have weird ears from wrestling. And I have a few small scars on my face from boxing. I doubt people notice either. But I feel the need to mention both here, so you know how manly I am.
Really, I have no idea. I am pretty normal looking.
I used to love movies. But I don't watch many anymore.
I watch most of the trendy TV shows from time to time.
I listen to music and eat food.
Witty banter and a distaste for monogamy will pique my interest.
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