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28 M San Francisco, CA

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Today – 11:21am
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs

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My self-summary
Grew up in the East Bay and went to school in Santa Cruz where I found my passion for science, philosophy of mind.

Music is the most moving, exciting and gratifying part of my life (guitar, bass, drums, electronic music).

Rock climbing, backpacking, meditation and just being in nature makes me feel connected to the universe... I want someone to share it with; for a short time, for a long time, for however long I am fortunate enough to share with someone.
What I’m doing with my life
I enjoy a career in biotechnology doing science/medical research. When I'm not working, I'm sharpening my blade at the grindstone for one of several goals: writing/playing music, stayin in shape by rock climbing/lifting/boxing, or learning about something historical or scientific. New projects keep me focused on learning new things. It's important to me to be in the best mental and physical shape i can be while still enjoying myself... I don't have time for things like video games.
I’m really good at
Music, story-telling, leading
The first things people usually notice about me
That I haven't said very much, yet they find me inexplicably interesting... There's a trick to it ;)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: The Better Angels of Our Nature (Pinker), Consciousness Explained (Dennett)

Movie: The Other Guys (quotation battles will ensue). I love any Will Ferrell or Tom Cruise movie.

Music recently: Chaka Khan, Genesis, Led Zeppelin, the 1975

Food: ALL
The six things I could never do without
-a guitar
-a stimulating text
-a sense of wonder for the natural world
-a goal or project
-meditation/quiet space
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Projects. Starting my own business. Becoming more efficient. Writing a song in my head. Daydreaming about the brain and behavior, biology, geology, cosmology... Relationships with other people, and how interesting, dynamic, beautiful and complex human beings are. I don't need fantasy, religion or fiction--reality is as mysterious, exciting and *weird* enough for me to contemplate.
On a typical Friday night I am
Out seeing live music or a DJ
Rock climbing with the crew
Or in my sanctuary, watching a movie or playing guitar
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am very quickly getting disillusioned with the dating scene in SF. Unlike many women I've met here,
-I know exactly what I want and can articulate it well
-I know who I am and what kind of person complements me
-I am chivalrous because that's how I was raised. If that turns you off, move on.
-I am completely OK with committing to one person if there is potential for love. It is what I am looking for.

If any of that doesn't jive with you, or you're more into being "busy", grappling for money or prestige instead of a genuine, kind connection with someone, I don't want to know you, and I will not let you color me jaded.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
How about you just *don't* message me if you have a septum piercing.. I don't want to kiss any girl who has one. I can see how that might be shallow but it's more of an exception to the rule that there are really very few deal-breakers for me. I appreciate variety in women and I believe in keeping my options open if I want something great to come my way! So don't be shy and don't let a little red dot scare you away.