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marstal

52 M Montclair, NJ

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:25pm
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Spontaneous romantic realist here ... hiking, cooking, traveling, reading, gardening, swimming in rivers/lakes/oceans: I actually do these things a lot! Long dinners with friends are a favorite event. I love a 50/50 city/country life: in this way I am bi. Seeking adventures with compelling, sincere people.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm in a second career as a university prof and loving it. This took me away for a while, but I'm thrilled to be back in the area.
I’m really good at
I'm very good at living well, at getting a lot out of my days and nights. A lot means quality time doing things I care about with people I care about. I'm also good at solitude, actually, and feel it's vital ... but less of it could be nice, and I love sharing time with people. Ready to see what might be next in my romantic life.
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes and the fact that I'm always observing ... and people always try to guess my heritage. I can pass in many lands.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
So much! The Hours, The Elegance of The Hedgehog, Kavalier and Klay, Sarah Vaughn, Light in the Piazza, Copland, JT and Carol King at Madison Square Garden, I could go on and on. I eat nearly everything and practically worship food, especially Italian, Greek, French, Spanish, Asian, seafood, and soul food. Me likee red wine. I don't say no to bourbon or gin, either.
The six things I could never do without
Oy vey: more choices. The forest, music, coffee, moonlight, rain, the comfort of long and loving relationships with family and friends. LOVE. In its many forms. Most of my friendships are of very long duration: decades. Oh - and my cabin in the woods.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What will be good to eat next. Living more fully, sharing my life, simplifying my life to make time for what matters most to me. Escaping the mundane.

When America is going to grow up and deal with the facts instead of our version of them.

And food.
On a typical Friday night I am
Either digging in my garden or cooking with friends. Or going out to the theatre or a movie. Sometimes all in one evening!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I was once, as a young and very confused adolescent, a card-carrying member of the Glen Campbell fan club. I can't believe I let that one out.
I’m looking for
  • Gay guys only
  • Ages 38–60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You really want to meet other passionate people. I hate playing around online. It's not a hobby for me. There's too much to do out there in the real world that's far more intriguing. Please don't write if you don't care about your own health and if your close friendships do not last for years and years. Also, if you dislike animals and are ambivalent about food and art, this is going nowhere.